4 Ways To Help Your Man Get A Clue

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4 Ways To Help Your Man Get A Clue [EXPERT]
Help your man get a clue about what you want and need in your relationship.

4. Be clear, specific and consistent.

If your partner seems clueless about what you like and want from your relationship, it could be a reflection of your words and actions. First and foremost, make sure you are clear with yourself about what you want. Don't unintentionally send out conflicting or mixed messages.

Try to catch inconsistencies with what you say and do so that your partner will have an easier time understanding you. When you make a request, be specific about exactly what you have in mind and if there's a time frame involved, say what that is exactly.

Talk about what you want in an honest, consistent and upfront way instead of assuming your partner knows. This is simple advice that yields phenomenal results. 5 Steps To A Happier Relationship

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Susie and Otto Collins are relationship coaches and authors who help couples communicate, connect and create the relationship they desire.  Click here to get their free ebook, Passionate Heart-Lasting Love.


 

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Susie and Otto Collins are relationship coaches and authors who help couples communicate, connect and create the passionate relationships they desire.



 

Location: Columbus, OH
Credentials: BS, CCC
Specialties: Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues
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