Why Are Men Attracted to Mean Women?

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Why Are Men Attracted to Mean Women? [EXPERT]
You don't have to be a jerk to get a date!

To question your expectations, you have to know what they are in the first place. Pay attention to your usual thoughts and also how you talk about dating and love to your friends and family. Stop repeating what's not true and what doesn't serve you.

Instead, create space for possibilities that allow you to be authentically who you are and successful at love.

2. Be the most confident you possible. If you are insecure or unsure of yourself, it's going to show. This is what keeps men or women away from you.

Make boosting your healthy confidence a top priority. Watch your thoughts and how you talk about yourself to others. This is so important. Stop putting yourself down or being hyper-critical of how you look, speak and/or act. This can take practice to change, so be gentle and patient with yourself.

Intentionally find things about yourself that you do feel good about. Play up these positive attributes in your own mind and notice how it feels. You're probably going to get a sense of lightness. and you might see yourself standing a little taller.

Explore who you are and find out what helps you feel more alive. Look in the mirror as you come into your own more than before. There will probably be a sparkle in your eye and a glow about you.

This is the "secret" that the jerks and b------ seem to have going for them. Isn't it wonderful to know that you can be the kind, caring and sensitive person you already are and exude a self-assurance that will attract a partner who is right for you?

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