Can A Womanizer Be Reformed?

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Can A Womanizer Be Reformed?
5 clues your man will never change...

Another way to avoid taking responsibility for his actions is to blame others. If he blames other women who are “too sexy,” “irresistible” or “she came on to me,” then it’s likely he’ll keep on doing what he’s been doing. There can be situations and circumstances that influence him, but without taking ownership for his role, there’s little chance he’ll make a change.  

#5: He refuses to talk about it.
When your guy changes the subject or flat-out refuses to talk about his behavior, this is probably a sign that he’s going to continue. Pay attention to how you’re communicating. Jealousy, accusations and nagging will put him on the defensive and he may give you the silent treatment because of it. You can be upfront without getting critical. Talk about the kind of commitment you want and ask him if he’s willing to agree to that.

If you’re with a womanizer, be smart. Make sure you two talk openly about what you each expect from the relationship or arrangement you’ve got going on and use protection to keep yourself sexually healthy too.

No matter how wonderful or “right" for you he seems to be, when you’re not seeing signs that he’ll make (and keep) the kind of commitment you want, decide what’s truly best for you.
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