5 Ways to Be an Irresistible Invitation to Love

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5 Ways to Be an Irresistible Invitation to Love
How to be irresistible and attract the love you're looking for...

There's nothing more irresistible than someone who glows. This is the person who has that special something that draws people to him or her.

The great news is any one of us can get a glow on and shine just like that.

 

Think about the last time you were doing something you absolutely love to do. Maybe it was rock climbing or biking. Maybe it was reading a book to a child or working in your garden. It doesn't matter what the activity was, the way you felt during and after taking part in this activity is what's important.

If you came away feeling energized and more fully alive, you were getting your glow on.

Do more of what makes your heart sing and what gets your glow on. Believe us, it will show.

#4: Stay open to love in disguise.

Sometimes, love shows itself in ways you don't expect or acknowledge. Maybe your partner believes that he or she IS giving you love, respect and appreciation, but in a slightly different way than you would prefer.

Open up and allow yourself to be loved in new and different ways.

By all means, if you'd like to hear “I love you” or other specific expressions from your partner, tell him or her. Without blaming or accusing, be clear about what helps you feel special. But, don't discount unique demonstrations of love just because they don't fit what you were expecting.

You might find that love “in disguise” is actually more exciting and meaningful than what you had in mind. You might find that your partner prefers to be loved in ways that are different than what you usually do.

As a couple, you both can grow and become even more irresistible to one another as you share what you each like while staying open to receiving what is offered.

#5: Create opportunities for love.

If you're not feeling love in your relationship or life, this could be because you're not leaving room for it. We live in a busy, busy world. Sometimes, it's tough for a couple to find time to merely eat dinner together, let alone really connect.

Intentionally set aside time in your schedule to be with the one you love and to have fun, make love or just hang out.

If you're single and looking for love, the same advice applies. Allow time in your busy schedule to be with people you enjoy and do the things you like to do. This provides opportunities for you and a special someone to meet and get to know one another better.

The bottom line is this... If you want to feel irresistible, make that a priority. Treat yourself well and stay open because you never know when love will happen for you.
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Susie & Otto Collins

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Susie and Otto Collins are relationship coaches and authors who help couples communicate, connect and create the passionate relationships they desire.



 

Location: Columbus, OH
Credentials: BS, CCC
Specialties: Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues
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