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5 Secret, Sexy, Techno-Savvy Ways Couples Can Flirt

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Challenge #13: Try one of these techno-savvy techniques to spice up your relationship!

Create a musical surprise.

Music is a perfect way to convey love and appreciation for your partner. Make a mixed playlist of romantic, sexy and playful tunes. Be sure to include some of your partner's favorite songs as well as your own. Then, if you have easy access to his/her mp3 player, upload the playlist and wait for your partner to discover your surprise.

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Meme how you feel.

Social networking sites like Facebook and Tumblr are full of funny, thoughtful and romantic memes. You don't have to be a graphic designer to flirt using memes. As long as you give credit to the original, you can post a meme to your partner's Facebook wall or post it to your own wall and tag your partner. Choose something that is playful and alluring. Remember, the aim is not to embarrass your partner or be inappropriate, but to hint at what you have in mind for date night.

There's an app for that.

Even if none of these suggestions appeal to you, there are plenty of apps that will do the work for you, from sending flirty images to suggesting perfectly witty things to say to your love. What's most important is that you find an app that lets you be authentic (if not just a tad sexier). Just remember, flirting is supposed to be fun and it's meant to bring you and your partner closer together!

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Susie and Otto Collins are relationship coaches and authors who love flirting with one another and love helping individuals and couples create passionate and close relationships. Find out how to get and keep Passionate Spark~Lasting Love at www.relationshipgold.com.

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Susie and Otto Collins are relationship coaches and authors who help couples communicate, connect and create the passionate relationships they desire.



 

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