4 Favorite Flirting Techniques that Really Work!

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4 Favorite Flirting Techniques that Really Work!
Attract love with these flirting success tips...

When you think about dating and attracting a partner, the word “flirting” is bound to come to mind. What better way to get someone's attention and let him or her know you're interested!

Flirting can be subtle or over-the-top. It can be cute, silly or sexy. It can involve simply a look or talking in a particular way with particular words. Flirting can be THE thing that draws to you the one you've got your eye on or it can fail miserably.

This is the risk with flirting...

It can be a great way to communicate that you'd like to get to know the other person better and it can also be a big and embarrassing flop!

Have you ever tried to flirt with someone only to be made fun or or totally ignored? If so, you might be hesitant to flirt. Your insecurity about your flirting skills could be keeping you alone and single when you don't want to be.

Flirting is a skill and it does tend to be easier for some people than it is for others. If you are extroverted and confident, you might not see flirting as a big deal or all that difficult. But, if you are more shy, often feel awkward and are uncomfortable stepping out of your comfort zone, then flirting is probably something you don't do very often.

Please know that ANYONE can be a successful flirt!

Your way of flirting might look or sound different from someone's else's way of flirting, but that doesn't mean you can't get the results you want too. So, isn't it time to stop telling yourself that you “can't” flirt and, instead, figure out how you CAN flirt and still be genuinely who you are?

Before we share techniques to help you more effectively flirt, remember this: Flirting is a powerful method for attracting a partner and with that power comes a need for caution.

Keep this in mind...

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Susie and Otto Collins are relationship coaches and authors who help couples communicate, connect and create the passionate relationships they desire.



 

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