Dating & The Law Of Attraction (Behavior breeds behavior)


Dating & The Law of Attraction. It is easier to achieve something when you can see it clearly.

I am sure by now you have heard this term a few times and may even be getting fed up with how much exposure it is receiving. What the does it mean anyway?

In simpler terms: Law of Attraction means: “like attracts like.” Or “behavior breeds behavior”

While this may sound like a simple concept this topic helps you learn how to “receive & believe” you can change your life to attract what you want. It doesn’t have to be a dream!

Your quality of life is more important than staying somewhere that you have outgrown & the only reason you are there is because it is easy and safe. Pursuing your passion should become your focus. Don’t look at it as a dream; actually visualize your new path.

It is easier to achieve something when you can see it clearly.

Most people are fearful of change especially in their later years. Fear is the biggest obstacle in the average person’s achievements. Inviting change keeps a person young and removes complacency. Many individuals do not know how to be alone. They are not comfortable in their own skin. They go from one relationship to another without any time between the two. In fact many people already have a new relationship lined up before they end the one they are presently in. How can you possibly find a new partner when you are involved with someone else?

It will never feel like the right time due to the unknown fear. Listen to your intuition, it is never wrong.

If you keep attracting the wrong people into your life it is happening because of the images you are seeing in your mind. Ask yourself honestly what type of relationship you truly want.

• Are you looking for love or friendship?
• How well do you communicate?
• What does your body language say to others?
• What do you think of yourself?
• Did you come from an abusive home & you are afraid it will happen again?
• Do you feel unattractive & think others look at you that way too?

“By changing your thoughts you can change your life.”

Contrary to what many people think attraction means, it is not necessarily what you may think. Being “attracted or having something or someone attracted to you” can be a negative. It is what you project that comes back. Look at your relationships over the years, is there a pattern? When you say negative comments: “I never meet anyone”, or “everyone is taken”, “who would want me,” this is what you are projecting to people you come in contact with.

What You Should Say:

• I am going to meet a wonderful partner
• I believe I deserve a great relationship.
• I am going to have love in my life
• I am going to be happy in all aspects of my life
• I can visualize my wonderful partner
• I am ready to share my life with someone I love

That is what you will achieve if you say it with conviction. Letting those negative thoughts creep in continually will slow the process down immensely. Send out what you want to receive. Try it for a month and be aware of the positive changes that occur in your life. There are many articles on this subject and some have been over publicized, but there are some great messages that shouldn‘t be ignored.

Make a list of what you want and what you are grateful for in your life. Read it back on a regular basis and say it out loud.

People that believe they can have it all are successful because “they believe it can happen.” For all of you non believers it might be time to open yourself up to trying a new approach to life. It can’t hurt and who knows, you may actually become a better person & enjoy your own company which will project onto others, allowing new doors to continually open.

Susan McCord @ http://www/

This article was originally published at . Reprinted with permission from the author.


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