3) Be courteous to people around you including the servers as this will be observed by others in the room. (I always watched people’s behavior when I was single as it told me a lot about their character!) If someone talks to you, acknowledge them in a friendly manner regardless of whether they are your type or not.
4) Dress appropriately & unpretentious but to suit your personality. If you are a spitfire, wear something bright & flirty and if you are conservative, dress that way. You want to attract someone fitting to who you are, so that you are compatible should there be a connection. (Opposites attract but they seldom stay together)
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5) Make your seating location & body language open & receptive to others in the room.
6) Don’t blow someone off because you can’t see yourself marrying them. They may have another purpose in your life. They could become a good friend or business associate. Networking comes in all forms of communication ~ nothing is a coincidence. Enjoy it for the moment!
If you dress like a "Cougar" you will attract predators & if you dress like a "Player" you will attract high maintenance/gold digger women.
The most important thing I would like to stress in this “dating blog” is how many people need to recharge their positive thinking when looking for a potential partner. Next time you go out on the town, change your thinking by using this thought process:
“I am going to have fun & talk to men/women tonight. I am not afraid to have love in my life & not all men/women are unavailable or unapproachable. There is someone for everyone & I am worthy of a wonderful relationship. Bring it on, I am ready!”
You may not meet someone right away as it takes time to change the negative pattern of yesterday. Write out a list of changes you want to make towards finding a wonderful partnership & read this on a daily basis, especially before you go out. Make out another list on what you want in a partner. (It should include a variety of characteristics, not just material objects.)
When I decided I was ready to meet someone, I made a list of the man I wanted to share my life with & what was most important to me in a relationship. I read it each night & also said out loud “I am ready to receive this wonderful man” & within 2 months he literally appeared in my life. I give thanks everyday for being blessed with such a kind, loving & thoughtful man. You really can have what you want in your life, you just have to believe you deserve it & practice good Karma to receive it.
You must "give to receive" and show gratitude to find the ultimate happiness in your life.
Wishing you lots of love ~ let me know how it works for you. I'd love to hear your stories!
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Susan McCord @ http://www.youtube.com/twobeavers