7 Ways To Schedule In Daily Self-Love So You ROCK Your Life

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It's time to love the real you.

Let’s face it, life gets busy. Often times we wake up to our routine, allowing our minds to churn as soon as our feet to hit the floor.

“I have to do this, do that, be here, and be there.” Before we are dressed and ready to walk out the door, we have used a ton of energy just anticipating how our day may turn out.

The question is: have you included yourself in this day? Or is it just another day of errands and tasks, running here and there to satisfy others? 

Have you once thought about how valuable you are to yourself, how fortunate you are in this life and how much more love is available when you add self-love in the equation? Probably not. 

During this next week try one of these 7 ideas each day to help improve the love available to you — the most important person in your life:

1. Take time to observe others

I learn something new about myself each time I do this. Sitting quietly, observe people’s words, actions and most of all, their sighs, shrugs and body language. Just for today, take a few minutes each hour to sit and watch. Do this without judgment — just observation.

What things do you see in others that you also see in yourself? Vocal, silent, tired, restless, nervous, too many things going on at once? Anything is possible when we look. 

Write down the positive things you see and at the end of the day, smile at yourself for these qualities of love.

2. Change one thing in your routine

I'm a structured person — sometimes to my own demise. Routines often times keep us from experiencing the newness of life’s situations. So today, change one thing in your routine. 

How does this feel to you? Is it difficult to come out of your comfort zone or let go of control and structure? Can you laugh at how easy or hard this is? What did you notice when you changed the routine?

At the end of the day, decide if this is something you want to continue, and hug yourself for trying something new.

3. Nurture yourself

So often we are so engaged with doing for others that we forget about ourselves. Maybe you always offer advice to those around you, giving others permission to rest, laugh, play, have dessert or whatever. For today, listen to the words you say to others and treat them as secret messages of your own soul's desires

Just for today, listen to your own guidance; nurture YOU. Do something for yourself that you are always doing for others. Smile and be happy with it.

4. Be comfortable in your own body

Life’s schedule keeps many of us in our head, a place where we think our way through or around situations or perceived problems. And so many struggle with body image because of this. 

We fear being big, we fear being small, we fear being seen and heard or not. Just for today, bring your body along on the journey. 

Feel the sensations of your feet touching the ground, of your arms swinging. Thank your body for supporting you, the wonderful person you already are. Notice any positive feelings your body provides and just for today, feel the whole of you.

5. Count your blessings

In our instant gratification world, it's human nature to want more. Just for today look around and be thankful for what you already have: your experiences, your friends, family, co-workers, and most of all, count yourself as a blessing. 

See how all of your needs are met and be gracious for what life brings you each moment. At the end of the day, say a prayer of thanks.

6. Forgive

This is a tough one, but oh so necessary for increasing self-love.

Forgiveness is the greatest healer of the mind, body and spirit. It opens our heart, sometimes with tears of joy and sometimes with tears of sadness. Forgiveness is a feeling, a feeling of acceptance for all that has happened, a feeling of letting go of the old and a feeling of gratitude for lessons we have learned along the way. 

Just for today, forgive yourself for being too harsh with you; then forgive others who have hurt you or those you have hurt. Open your heart to receive the newness of this adventure and feel the openness within.

7. Play. 

Everyone has his or her own definition of play. For many play is active, and for others play is passive. It doesn't matter. I myself consider reading a good book as part of my play routine.

Play allows us to rest and rejuvenate, laugh and smile. Just for today, play in a way that is meaningful to you. Play in a way that is comfortable without regard for what others may think. Build your self-love by allowing some play in your life.

Susan Dykes is an intuitive healer who assists others in finding the good in themselves. To learn more about Susan click here.  


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