Set the tone for school and show them that as a family, we can have fun, when everyone gets their schoolwork done.
Parenting is the best and most stressful job in the world. I try to remember that in the blink of an eye, my kiddos will be graduated from school, out in the big world, and I will be praying that they will just give me a call. Keep the big picture in mind. As the saying goes, don't sweat the small stuff.
Sending you all love (and patience),