How To Choose The RIGHT Vibrator For Your Sex Life

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Vibrators can spice up just about anyone's sex life. Here's how to choose the right one!

Do you need help deciding which vibrator is best for you or your partner?

There's so many vibrators out there, it can be tough and overwhelming to choose. Although My Secret Luxury has curated the best luxury vibrators for you, there are so many to choose from.

So, how do you know which vibrator is the right one for you or your partner? Answer these few questions and you will make the right choice on how to choose a vibrator:

Do you want ...

... external or clitoral stimulation?

Vibration on or around the clitoris feels good. For beginners, try simple smaller clitoral vibrators like the Minna Limon or We-Vibe Touch. For advanced users, try something more powerful like the We-Vibe TangoJimmyJane Iconic Wand, or Doxy wand electric massager.

... internal or G-spot stimulation?

Vibrators with a curved tip are best for G-spot stimulation. The G-spot vibrators that we recommend either the LELO Gigi 2 or Fun Factory Delight. If you want something with bigger girth, then try the LELO Mona. If you want a toy that does the "come hither" motion for proper G-spot stimulation, then try the LELO Mona Wave.

... a vibrator that fits on your hand?

The JimmyJane Hello Touch is a powerful and small finger vibrator that can be used both externally on the clitoris and internally on the G-spot (with help from a partner).

... a vibrator that is super discreet?

If you want to go through airport security without any worries or want something that can be thrown in a purse, try a discreet lipstick external vibrator. Yes - it really does look like lipstick or a tube of lipgloss. We recommend the LELO Mia 2.

If you are daring enough to leave something out on your nightstand, the super discreet and external clitoral vibrator, Revel Body SOL, won't turn any heads.

... a vibrator to stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot?

This kind of vibrator gives the user lots of choice. Some dual stimulation or rabbit vibrators give you the choice to stimulate the clitoris or the G-spot or both at the same time. Our top choices are the smaller Fun Factory Amorino and the girthier LELO Ina 2. 

... a vibrator worn by the woman during sex that is hands-free?

Approximately 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, and therefore, don't orgasm during penetrative sex. The We-Vibe 4 Plus is a couples vibrator worn during sex and allows both partners an equal opportunity to orgasm. This luxury vibe can stimulate the clitoris and the G-spot at the same while the penis is inside the vagina.

... a vibrator worn by the man during sex that is hands-free?

Another hands-free option is a vibrating penis ring, which is worn on the penis. Since the ring vibrates, she gets the benefits of feeling vibration on the clitoris. Je Joue Mio or JimmyJane Iconic Penis Ring.

Are you an advanced user and have tried lots of vibrators, but want something totally different?

The best option is a Fun Factory Stronic Pulsator. A pulsating sex toy is not a vibrator. It simulates the movement of back and forth penetration. For a woman, using a Stronic Eins, Stronic Zwei, or Stronic Drei Pulsator in addition to a clitoral vibrator, will send her to the moon with the best orgasm ever!

This article was originally published at My Secret Luxury's Blog. Reprinted with permission from the author.

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