Feeling lost in your search for love?


Feeling lost in your search for love?
I promise you that when you practice these steps as I’ve outlined them, you will create a powerful h

1.) Always listen to your gut. If your gut is telling you to do something or not do something make sure you listen. If Mario had listened to his gut, he would not have put the keys on the tailgate of his truck.  If you’re feeling compelled to go to a different coffee shop today, then listen!  Your man could be there waiting for you, could be the manager of the shop, or could be visiting the shop next door.
2.) Don't let fear creep in. When Mario was in a state of panic, he was not able to find his keys. It's as though he had a veil over his eyes and a block in his brain.  He drove the route to look for them before our tenant found them, and yet he didn’t see them.  When you're focused on fear, your man could be directly in front of you and you would not see him, because your energy is not in alignment with your desire.

Love cannot exist in the same space as fear. So, if you're worried and afraid about the reasons you don't have your man in your life, you're not in the right frame of mind to notice him when he arrives, and he will walk on by and create a bigger delay to you realizing your dream.

3.) Maintain a state of positive expectancy. Once Mario shifted his thoughts from the fearful thought of “Oh my God, what if that guy has found my keys?” To the hopeful thought of “Someone I know must have picked them up, and is looking for me right now to give them back.” He was able to manifest finding his keys.

If you can honestly reach the feeling place of knowing that your man is looking for you, at the same time you are looking for him; and trust that the universe will bring him to you in the exact right time, then you will have released all fear and doubt about his arrival, and your energy will be in line with him showing up for you.

4.) Detach yourself from the outcome.  In the beginning of losing his keys Mario felt fear, worry, concern, and was extremely attached to finding them. While he walked to look for them, he was able to quiet his mind and come up with possible solutions to this problem. 

Mario realized that if he must replace his entire set of keys, that's what he would do. There weren't any keys on his ring that couldn't be replaced. He would just need to remember what keys he had.  Once he detached from the outcome, the keys presented themselves.

If you are enormously attached to the thought that you MUST have a man in your life, then you are much less likely to attract the high quality man you are looking for.  Become happy with your life, your path, the things you are doing, and know that having a man to share those experiences and joys with you will be icing on a most beautiful cake that you have already created.  You will reach the space of wanting your man, but not needing him.  Feel the difference?

5.) Express gratitude in anticipation of the result.  Mario knows the power of gratitude as we practice it as a couple, and in our office where we and our employees write what we’re grateful for on a daily basis.  He unconsciously practiced this concept while walking and searching for his keys. 

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Stacy Corrigan

Relationship Coach

Stacy Corrigan, The Rocket from Woonsocket, founder of www.ManifestYourMan.net

Chief Manifester, Speaker, and Author of the Award winning book Manifest Your Man® 

"I show women how to love themselves first, so they can launch their rockets of desire out to the universe, and magnetically attract the high quality love into their lives they deserve."

Manifest Your Man® foreword written by Bob Doyle, endorsed by Marci Shimoff, Joe Vitale, Jeanna Gabellini, and Secret Millionaire James Malinchak. Currently in 95 countries and all 50 states of the United States.

Also a contributing author to 101 Great Ways to Improve Your Life - Volume III alongside Byron Katie, Mark Victor Hansen, Les Brown, and Ken Blanchard.


Location: Woonsocket, RI
Credentials: BS, MBA
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