The Valuable Life & Love Lessons From Disney's Frozen

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The Valuable Life & Love Lessons From Disney's Frozen
Have you seen Frozen yet? The life and love lessons in this film are amazing! Let's begin...

How do I know? Because right now, at this very moment, you are the only you we have on this planet. And you came here with certain unique gifts and abilities that no one Elsa seems to have. Just you! We need those gifts in you because you are the only you we have!

You see sweetie, it actually doesn't do the world any good for you to try to be more like Tom, Susie or Jane becuase we already have one of them.  We need you to be you! So, sweetie, what if you just let it go!Stop hiding, stop trying to be something Elsa, stop trying to be what they want you to be. Just let it go!

"Let it go, let it go.
And I'll rise like the break of dawn.
Let it go, let it go
That perfect girl is gone
Here I stand, in the light of day
Let the storm rage on!
The cold never bothered me anyway."

The truth is..."When you are true to yourself, people will love the truth in you" – Stacey Martino

Take it from this Ice Princess. The thing I feared most was being my sunny, bubbly, warm, open, highly excitable, too loud and overly-loving self and getting crushed by people who wipe the floor with open people like me.

Well guess what? One day it happened anyway. And in the "well now it happened" moment for me, I decided to let it go and walk straight into it.  And the Ice Princess became the Stacey you know today. Turns out this whole "Lovie" thing worked out pretty good for me after all! How about you my love? What storm will you walk straight through?

Let me be the first person to tell you the truth in this moment. I am going to love you even more when I can see you, the real you! And so will everyone Elsa in your life who is worth loving my darling!

Sending love,
Stacey
"Former Ice Princess"

P.S. There are so many other moments in this incredible film that I could write about. Maybe I'll do a mini-series on it one day! We can watch it and learn from it as we go through it together! Wouldn't that be a blast?! I'll add it to our list along with Love Actually, Enchanted and every episode of Friends!

*All rights to Frozen, the video, and movie content are owned by Disney. Idina Menzel lyrics are property and copyright of their owners.

Stacey Martino helps people who feel stuck, frustrated and helpless with the challenges that intimate relationship brings. Through targeted, strategic private coaching, programs and events for her Relationship Transformation™, Relationship Rescue™ and Relationship Transition™ programs, individuals learn to use her proven strategies and tools to create an unshakable love and unleashed passion that lasts a lifetime.

Stacey firmly believes that it absolutely does not take two to tango, that one person can significantly shift the dynamics of the relationship. Clients have praised Stacey for helping them to see massive results in record time. Formerly known as "The Ice Princess," Stacey is intimately aware of what it takes to transform oneself to be ready to both give and receive love and passion like you have never experienced before.

Watch Stacey's Free Valentine's Day Video, "How to Reignite Your Passion" at RelationshipTransformationSystem.com

 

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Stacey Martino

Relationship Coach

Stacey Martino helps people who feel stuck, frustrated and helpless with the challenges that intimate relationship brings. Stacey firmly believes that it absolutely does NOT take two to tango, that one person can significantly shift the dynamics of the relationship. 

Through targeted, strategic private coaching, programs and events for her Relationship Transformation System™, Stacey empowers you to transform your intimate relationship without needing your partner to participate in order for this to work for you!

Trained and certified by Tony Robbins and Cloe Madanes, Stacey is a certified marriage educator and divorce preventionist. Stacey is a sought-after relationship expert appearing on numerous media outlets and telesummits and is the Relationship Expert for Aspire Magazine.  Download Stacey's free audio program, “How to Transform Your Relationship in Eight Steps” at  http://RelationshipTransformationSystem.com

 

Location: Newtown, PA
Credentials: Other
Specialties: Couples/Marital Issues, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Marriage
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