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Sex Talk with Seduction Guru Spencer Burnett

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What does a dating, sex, and seduction coach REALLY have to say about sex?

Last week, my article on Spencer Burnett was strictly business. And, while that was all fine and good, what I’ve really been looking forward to it this week and this post.

Why the anticipation?

Because, for as much as I appreciate business talk, anyone who knows me can attest to the fact that there are few things I love more than some dirty talk. So, this week, I’m dropping the business and moving on to pleasure.

That’s right, dearest readers, let’s talk about (mind-blowingly satisfying) sex with Spencer Burnett. Because, let’s be honest, if YOU had one of the most fascinating (and honest!) dating, sex, and seduction gurus giving you carte blanche to ask him whatever you please, wouldn’t you dip your pinky toe in to the naughty pool, too?

I thought so….

The Sex Skill Every Woman Should Master

According to Spencer Burnett, 80% of a woman’s “sexual scorecard” depends solely on her enthusiasm. As he explains it, there is such a thing as bad sex, and it is usually replete with insecurity. The only other thing that can make sex turn sour is when someone runs their mouth about how good they are in bed…but simply cannot rise to the occasion.

And, while I didn’t exactly find that information to be earth-shattering, Spencer Burnett’s response about the one sexual skill that EVERY woman should master totally caught me off guard. I expected blow job. Obviously. But, as he explained it, a good blow job is nothing more than a hand job featuring a mouth and “in just fifteen seconds of having a woman’s hand down my pants, I can tell how good she’ll be in bed (because) hands are intentional and dexterous.” My mind? Blown.

 

Spencer Burnett went on to explain that, for men, there isn’t a singular skill to master when is comes to making a woman cum. That’s because a female orgasm isn’t  purely the result of physical stimulation. Rather, it’s all about the experience that makes her moan, and much of an orgasm happens in a woman’s mind.

Read more of our interview with Spencer Burnett, including his thoughts on porn, toys, and sex on the first date, here. And, head on over to our blog to read more from the Singles Warehouse Experts.

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