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Finding the Man of your Dreams is an Inside Job

Love, Self

In order to find what you truly need, you need to figure out what that is!

I have to admit, I didn’t actually believe the Man of My Dreams existed––that is, until I met him. I’d compiled an exhaustively long list of Man-criteria and couldn’t readily imagine a guy who “had it all.” But that’s the interesting thing about conscious MANifesting®: you don’t actually need to believe, as long as you stop actively disbelieving.

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What is required, however, is that you feel completely worthy of your Dreamboat even if–– paradoxically––you’re not really sure that he’s out there. Why? Because our minds are powerful transmitters of signals, and we receive back what we emanate. So if you don’t feel that you deserve an amazing Man (and deciding that you’re too picky and must settle is a big clue), the Universe simply echoes your assertions and will not send you a proper mate––until you change your order.inside job.

You are a Powerful Creator

Have you ever bought a new car and suddenly started seeing that car everywhere, as if half the population just got the same make and model as you? That’s the Law of Attraction in action. Whatever you focus on is what shows up. And it’s true of everything in your life, though it can be challenging to see cause-and-effect, particularly when emotional stakes are high.

What is it that you’ve been broadcasting? When you realize that all your experiences begin in the invisible realm of thought, let that epiphany be cause for celebration and self-empowerment, not self-blame. Give yourself a break, but begin creating what you truly desire––by changing the channel in your mind.

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