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Dirty Talk: When, Where, and How Much

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A little dirty talk can be good...as long as your partner is receptive. Here are the rules.

The other day after getting home I noticed that I had a message on my answering machine. When I went to listen to it I could not believe the voice I heard, it was The Frenchman. I don’t think I can remember the last time I talked to him, the last time I heard his voice, it has to be at least 6 months since I last talked to him. But why was he calling me? I guess that can be another story for another time. But hearing his voice is what lead me to my post for this week. Dirty Talk.

Talking Dirty
So why did The Frenchman get me thinking about talking dirty? Well lets just say the man is one of those dirty talkers who pushes his limits. There has been moments where I have been with him and all I could think “did he just say that?”. He is also one of those dirty talkers who has also pulled out the “daddy card” on more than one occasion, which usually has left me laughing.

When is Dirty Talk OK?
I guess it really depends on the person, some people are totally comfortable with it, while others are completely turned off by it, or even others are too shy and embarrassed about it. But dirty talk can be used before, during and I have even been with guys that keep it up after having sex. Personally, I have never minded a bit of dirty talk during foreplay. There is nothing more exciting when a man starts to whisper in your ear what he is going to do to you before it happens. Not only does it get your blood boiling, it also can get your mind wondering! 

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