Dealing with Mixed Messages from a Man


Dealing with Mixed Messages from a Man
Mix messages don't help anyone in a relationship. Read here for how to deal.

Dating a guy who sends mixed messages is not only counter-productive, but it’s also frustrating, confusing and severely annoying. Unfortunately, it’s a part of the dating game and it’s something all of us have dealt with at one point or another. So when it happens, how do you deal with it?

This week, one of our followers asks:



Dear @Instigaytor,

I met this guy about 5 months ago and we really seemed to connect. We started as friends and during that time, we ended up becoming roommates. Not long after that, a relationship started to form and we started going on dates and sleeping together. Things got very intense and I think it’s safe to say that I have fallen for him pretty hard.

I decided to let him know how I feel about him and he basically told me that we are not exclusive.  I took this as his word so I have been dating other guys.

I can tell that he is bothered by it because now, things between us have gotten so weird. I am severely confused because one minute he is treating me like I am his main squeeze and the next, I’m just another dude off the street.

All these mixed signals have me lost and I could really use some advice. How do I get control of this situation?”

Read the advice here, and check out more great articles on Singles Warehouse.

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