Kickstart Your Out-Of-Gas Relationship By Valentine's Day


Kickstart Your Out-Of-Gas Relationship By Valentine's Day
A six-week Couples Challenge guaranteed to spark some changes!


Too often both partners are all about, ME, ME, ME. During this week you are forced to step out of your needs and into your partner’s. The happiest couples give without the need to get back.

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These gestures needn’t be expensive. For example, you know your partner loves coffee in the morning so you bring it to him in bed. Or he sets the DVR for your favorite program.

At the end of the week each unveils a special Valentine's surprise.

Since this is the final meeting of this adventure, share what this experience has been like for the two of you… and brainstorm how to keep growing as a couple rather than slide back into same old/same old.

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Sherry Amatenstein, LCSW


Sherry Amatenstein, LCSW

Therapist, Relationship Author

Sherry Amatenstein, LSCW is a NYC-based therapist, the author of The Q & A DATING BOOK: Answers to the thorniest, sexiest, and most intimate and revealing questions about love, sex, and romantic relationships; LOVE LESSONS FROM BAD BREAKUPS: Discover how to make relationships last - by learning from the ones that didn't; and THE COMPLETE MARRIAGE COUNSELOR: Relationship-Saving Advice from America's Top 50+ Couples Therapists.

She is regularly called upon to give advice on ticklish relationship issues on national talk shows. Check out her website for 64 free tips that can save your relationship.

Saturday March 17th, at 930 EST on CMT's Sherry will be giving pre-marital marital counseling to Jared and Michelle! Tune in!

Location: Long Island City, NY
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