Do you owe it to your partner to give “full disclosure”? When is it appropriate to have “the talk”?
When entering into a new relationship it’s tricky deciding when to share certain personal information with your new partner. And how much is too much?
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In this video, Senior VP of Experts Melanie Gorman poses these questions to me and my fellow YourTango Experts Charles Orlando, Sheila Paxton, Barbara Schiffman.
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When to have "the talk" (full disclosure)
Schiffman says that you should bring up your past when there is a new level of intimacy, but beware of what you might hear about the other person.
"If, all of sudden, you get into a committed relationship and you agree on full disclosure," says Paxton, "but now, you've disclosed things that maybe should've been disclosed before you got into the committed relationship, now you've got a trust issue going on."
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