Couples who play together are much happier. It's important for women to understand that pleasure is their birthright. As observed by Dr. Schnarch, women need to connect with their feminine energy, their pleasure center, and create what they want in their love life. So get in touch with what brings you pleasure - make a list of 10 things that make your skin tingle with excitement and make sure you do at least one of them every day.
Loss of Connection
If you are like the millions of women who crave an intimate connection with their man but are expecting him to turn into Don Juan and create all the romance, you're unconsciously giving your power away. You need to ask yourself, "Do I want to stay stuck or do I want to reach out and be a bridge to love?"
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Most men were not raised to know how to woo you beyond the initial stages of love and are fearful of being criticized and rejected, whereas women, the feminine, are the source of creativity. So stop judging and blaming, start softening, and allow a safe haven for your partner to enter into. Go dancing, listen to music, watch a funny movie or design a fun environment to play in. The point is you have the power to create what you want, so do it!
I invite you to take a moment and reflect - are you making the most of your feminine power? Are you seeking balance, meaningful connection and pleasure within your relationship? If you can live consciously and avoid these three traps you are definitely on your way to a successful relationship.
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