Shela Dean - Author, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Richmond, VA
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Shela Dean (JD)

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Phone 804.332.5323

Fax: sheladean1

Articles

How to "Fix" Your Partner

Do an Amazon search on “self-improvement” or "self-help" and you’ll get a long, long list of books to choose from (including my book Read More

Expert: 50 Ways To Love Your Lover

In 1975 Paul Simon released his hit song "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover." I recently looked up the lyrics and discovered something I'd failed to notice in 1975 when I was hummin' along. The song is about a woman giving a man advice on how to extricate himself from his current relationship. The song ends ...

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Humor: The Language of Intimacy

Private jokes. Code words. Shorthand ways of communicating. It's part of what makes a couple a couple. To hubby Dale and me, for instance, "not pregnant" means "don't make assumptions." Here's how that one came about . . . We were on the way to a matinee. I was driving my red-hot Mustang, ...

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Memories: The Intimate Glue That Binds

"Romantic gestures." That's the search term I used while cruising the 'Net. "Breakfast in bed." That's what popped up as the classic "oldie but goodie" way for guys to score points, or what in our house are called Frequent Foreplay Miles. Some may find that romantic, but I think it's weird. You don't sleep on your ...

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How to Have Greater Emotional Intimacy

Intimacy. By definition it involves connection. Sexual intimacy is a physical connection; emotional intimacy is a connection of mind, heart and spirit. Great sex is not only a blast, it's a blessing. If you've got it, count your lucky stars. It's not, however, enough to sustain a fulfilling relationship. For that, ...

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Shela Dean

Quick Stats

Credentials:

JD

Time in Practice:

6-10 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Relationship Coach

Speaker/Presenter

YourTango Expert Partner

I offer my services:

At my office

Telephone

By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

Via Skype

Via a webcam

Licence information:

Expiration 12/31/14
Number 83245

Articles by Shela Dean
How to "Fix" Your Partner

How to "Fix" Your Partner

Do an Amazon search on “self-improvement” or "self-help" and ...

couple massage

Expert: 50 Ways To Love Your Lover

In 1975 Paul Simon released his hit song "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover." I recently ...

Humor: The Language of Intimacy

Humor: The Language of Intimacy

Private jokes. Code words. Shorthand ways of communicating. It's part of what makes a couple a ...

Memories: The Intimate Glue That Binds

Memories: The Intimate Glue That Binds

"Romantic gestures." That's the search term I used while cruising the 'Net. "Breakfast in bed." ...

How to Have Greater Emotional Intimacy

How to Have Greater Emotional Intimacy

Intimacy. By definition it involves connection. Sexual intimacy is a physical connection; ...

Check Out My New Book
frequent foreplay miles, Your Ticket To Total Intimacy
Want more WOW in your relationship-in and out ...
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All Specialties

Couples/Marital Issues