Shela Dean, Author

Shela Dean - Author, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Richmond, VA
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Having a great relationship doesn't require hard work unless you're working on the wrong things. I use humor, common sense, and been-there-done-that wisdom to show all couples, ...

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Can Type A and Type B Co-Exist?

One of the coolest things about being in a committed relationship is having someone to grow old with, someone with whom you share so many memories that sitting in the rockers on the porch won’t be boring at all, you’ll have so much to talk about. Equally as cool is how, if you open your mind and heart, your ...

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Turn Everyday Events Into Intimacy Rituals

A good marriage has the attributes of friendship. There’s someone to zip your dress, give an opinion about what tie goes with the jacket, get aspirin for your headache, or laugh at your jokes. Good stuff. But what sustains a marriage and makes it GREAT is Emotional Intimacy. That’s what makes living together on a ...

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Unconditional Forgiveness: Is It Possible?

Forgiveness. It’s a topic we hear a lot about when it comes to marriage and relationships. Lord knows there’s plenty to forgive and I, for one, am grateful for a partner who has a generous and forgiving heart. Human beings are imperfect people and, therefore, forgiveness is critical to any ...

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Touch and the 20-Second Kiss

Touch is essential to intimacy. Okay, I know you think I’ve just stated the obvious but I’m not talking about "that kind" of intimacy. I’m talking about emotional intimacy and the hand holding, arms around the waist, bear hugging, back rubbing, cheek kissing, fist bumping, high fiving, shoulder rubbing, bottom ...

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When to Keep it Zipped

You’re annoyed. It’s your sweetheart’s fault. Sometimes, just as you’re about to open your mouth, you hear that little voice, that aggravatingly-always-right little voice, that says, “Keep it zipped.” Ignoring that voice (aka your intuition) will get you into trouble every time. It pays to listen. But what if that ...

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Success Stories

Great New Book Endorsement

Woo hoo! My book Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket to Total Intimacy was just given a great endorsement by Larry James, author of How to Really Love the One You're With. To buy my book visit my website at http://www.FrequentForeplayMiles.com. Thanks!

Marriage Saved

I recently got an email from a woman thanking me. Here's what she said;

I wanted to say thank you! You absolutely saved my marriage which, after 25 years, was on the brink of divorce. About 2 months after I read your book and followed your advice, my husband noticed the change in me. We were no longer fighting and I had stopped sniping at him. I shared your book with him. He read it in one sitting and couldn't put it down. That's when the real process of fixing our marriage began. We are talking more than we have in 10 years, are in love again, and the fireworks have been re-ignited! Thank you, Shela, for making the emotional love in our life stronger and for making the physical love happen again.

Shela Dean
Relationship Coach, Speaker & Bestselling Author
http://www.ShelaDean.com
http://www.FrequentForeplayMiles.com

CredentialsJD
Time in Practice6-10 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseRelationship Coach
Speaker/Presenter
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
Via a webcam
Licence informationExpiration 12/31/14
Number 83245
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket To Total Intimacy

Want more WOW in your relationship-in and out of the bedroom? ...

USD $13.46

Buy online

You Unstuck: Mastering the New Rules of Risk-taking in Work and Life

In You Unstuck, Libby Gill uses cases studies, client stories from ...

USD $12.79

Buy online

CredentialsJD
Time in Practice6-10 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseRelationship Coach
Speaker/Presenter
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
Via a webcam
Licence informationExpiration 12/31/14
Number 83245
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket To Total Intimacy

Want more WOW in your relationship-in and out of the bedroom? ...

USD $13.46

Buy online

You Unstuck: Mastering the New Rules of Risk-taking in Work and Life

In You Unstuck, Libby Gill uses cases studies, client stories from ...

USD $12.79

Buy online