Shela Dean - Author, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Richmond, VA
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Shela Dean (JD)

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Open a Sex Savings Account & Earn Real Dividends

Okay, I’m going to be honest. This is not an entirely original idea. It was inspired by Brenda and Gill, the most clever couple I’ve ever met when it comes to keeping things playful and spicy. For example, they’re fond of having candlelit black tie dinners for two and they each wear nothing but a black tie. They ...

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3 Darned Good Reasons to Publicly Display Your Affection

Remember when Tom Cruise jumped on Oprah’s couch and proclaimed undying love for Katie Holmes? He took a lot of media heat for that (and a lot of people did the eye-roll thing) but odds are good that Tom got a whopping big bunch of points (or what I call Frequent Foreplay Miles) from Ms. Katie and, after ...

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When Differences Become Irreconcilable

I was cruisin’ the home page of Your Tango and read the retrospective on the turbulent relationship of Sean Penn and Robin Wright Penn. I was reminded that CNN recently reported that divorce has a permanently bad affect on your mental and physical health. In my case, NOT getting a divorce would have been bad for my ...

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Keep Your Guy By Letting Him Sleep Around!?!!

Negotiated infidelity. That’s the subject of “Sugarbabe” by Holly Hill, an Australian former mistress turned author. Her premise: keep your guy faithful to your relationship by letting him be unfaithful to you. Hmmmm . . . Call me old fashioned. Call me narrow-minded. But I’m not one teensy bit interested in ...

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What You Don't Know Can Hurt You

There are plenty of so-called truisms out there, all designed to make us “okay” with things that aren’t “okay.” For example, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me.” We all know that’s baloney. Words can hurt like hell. And how about this one: “What you don’t know can’t hurt you.” ...

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Shela Dean

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Credentials:

JD

Time in Practice:

6-10 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Relationship Coach

Speaker/Presenter

YourTango Expert Partner

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Expiration 12/31/14
Number 83245

Articles by Shela Dean
Open a Sex Savings Account & Earn Real Dividends

Open a Sex Savings Account & Earn Real Dividends

Okay, I’m going to be honest. This is not an entirely original idea. It was inspired by Brenda ...

3 Darned Good Reasons to Publicly Display Your Affection

3 Darned Good Reasons to Publicly Display Your Affection

Remember when Tom Cruise jumped on Oprah’s couch and proclaimed undying love for Katie ...

When Differences Become Irreconcilable

When Differences Become Irreconcilable

I was cruisin’ the home page of Your Tango and read the retrospective on the turbulent ...

Keep Your Guy By Letting Him Sleep Around!?!!

Keep Your Guy By Letting Him Sleep Around!?!!

Negotiated infidelity. That’s the subject of “Sugarbabe” by Holly Hill, an Australian former ...

What You Don't Know Can Hurt You

What You Don't Know Can Hurt You

There are plenty of so-called truisms out there, all designed to make us “okay” with things that ...

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Couples/Marital Issues