Shela Dean - Author, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Richmond, VA
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Shela Dean (JD)

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2 Ways to Get naked

Intimacy in our committed relationship. It can be so elusive. Sure, you get snippets of it here and there—enough to make you long for the real deal. You get glimpses of what achieving the Nirvana of connections is all about, You want it. You crave it. You even know what it takes to get it. Too often, ...

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3 Ways to Ensure Your Relationship Survives Change

Years ago, there was a TV commercial for Lipton soup. A child ran into the kitchen and asked his mom, who was standing over a steaming pot, “Is it soup yet?” That phrase became a shorthand way of asking if something is done. Few us as are the same person at 40 as we are at 20—it takes time to become soup—which is ...

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Would You Marry You?

Would you marry you? If you were/are single, are you the kind of person you’d be looking for and want to hook up with? Sure, we all want a partner who is our version of the Perfect 10. But truth be told, we cross our fingers that said Perfect 10 will settle for a Strong 7 and overlook a few of our less than ...

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Open a Sex Savings Account & Earn Real Dividends

Okay, I’m going to be honest. This is not an entirely original idea. It was inspired by Brenda and Gill, the most clever couple I’ve ever met when it comes to keeping things playful and spicy. For example, they’re fond of having candlelit black tie dinners for two and they each wear nothing but a black tie. They ...

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3 Darned Good Reasons to Publicly Display Your Affection

Remember when Tom Cruise jumped on Oprah’s couch and proclaimed undying love for Katie Holmes? He took a lot of media heat for that (and a lot of people did the eye-roll thing) but odds are good that Tom got a whopping big bunch of points (or what I call Frequent Foreplay Miles) from Ms. Katie and, after ...

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Shela Dean

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Credentials:

JD

Time in Practice:

6-10 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Relationship Coach

Speaker/Presenter

YourTango Expert Partner

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Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

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Licence information:

Expiration 12/31/14
Number 83245

Articles by Shela Dean
2 Ways to Get naked

2 Ways to Get naked

Intimacy in our committed relationship. It can be so elusive. Sure, you get snippets of it ...

3 Ways to Ensure Your Relationship Survives Change

3 Ways to Ensure Your Relationship Survives Change

Years ago, there was a TV commercial for Lipton soup. A child ran into the kitchen and asked his ...

Would You Marry You?

Would You Marry You?

Would you marry you? If you were/are single, are you the kind of person you’d be looking for and ...

Open a Sex Savings Account & Earn Real Dividends

Open a Sex Savings Account & Earn Real Dividends

Okay, I’m going to be honest. This is not an entirely original idea. It was inspired by Brenda ...

3 Darned Good Reasons to Publicly Display Your Affection

3 Darned Good Reasons to Publicly Display Your Affection

Remember when Tom Cruise jumped on Oprah’s couch and proclaimed undying love for Katie ...

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Couples/Marital Issues