Shela Dean, Author

Shela Dean - Author, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Richmond, VA
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Having a great relationship doesn't require hard work unless you're working on the wrong things. I use humor, common sense, and been-there-done-that wisdom to show all couples, ...

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Is Your Sex Life Missing Emotional Intimacy?

If your sex life isn’t what you want it to be, perhaps your emotional intimacy isn’t what it should be. An unshakable, trust-filled, emotional connection is the magic ingredient for off-the-chart sex. Sure, you can have feels-really-good sex with a stranger, but if you want committed-relationship sex ...

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How To Know He’s The One? Trust Your Intuition

Last week I had mother-daughter date night with my daughter Lisa, usually dinner (with catch up conversation) and then a movie. This week it was Eat, Pray, Love. I thought the movie was so-so but it was the trailer for an upcoming romantic comedy that got me thinking. It posed the question how do you know ...

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2 Ways to Get naked

Intimacy in our committed relationship. It can be so elusive. Sure, you get snippets of it here and there—enough to make you long for the real deal. You get glimpses of what achieving the Nirvana of connections is all about, You want it. You crave it. You even know what it takes to get it. Too often, ...

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3 Ways to Ensure Your Relationship Survives Change

Years ago, there was a TV commercial for Lipton soup. A child ran into the kitchen and asked his mom, who was standing over a steaming pot, “Is it soup yet?” That phrase became a shorthand way of asking if something is done. Few us as are the same person at 40 as we are at 20—it takes time to become soup—which is ...

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Would You Marry You?

Would you marry you? If you were/are single, are you the kind of person you’d be looking for and want to hook up with? Sure, we all want a partner who is our version of the Perfect 10. But truth be told, we cross our fingers that said Perfect 10 will settle for a Strong 7 and overlook a few of our less than ...

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MY RECENT COMMENTS

Success Stories

Great New Book Endorsement

Woo hoo! My book Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket to Total Intimacy was just given a great endorsement by Larry James, author of How to Really Love the One You're With. To buy my book visit my website at http://www.FrequentForeplayMiles.com. Thanks!

Marriage Saved

I recently got an email from a woman thanking me. Here's what she said;

I wanted to say thank you! You absolutely saved my marriage which, after 25 years, was on the brink of divorce. About 2 months after I read your book and followed your advice, my husband noticed the change in me. We were no longer fighting and I had stopped sniping at him. I shared your book with him. He read it in one sitting and couldn't put it down. That's when the real process of fixing our marriage began. We are talking more than we have in 10 years, are in love again, and the fireworks have been re-ignited! Thank you, Shela, for making the emotional love in our life stronger and for making the physical love happen again.

Shela Dean
Relationship Coach, Speaker & Bestselling Author
http://www.ShelaDean.com
http://www.FrequentForeplayMiles.com

CredentialsJD
Time in Practice6-10 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseRelationship Coach
Speaker/Presenter
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
Via a webcam
Licence informationExpiration 12/31/14
Number 83245
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket To Total Intimacy

Want more WOW in your relationship-in and out of the bedroom? ...

USD $13.46

Buy online

You Unstuck: Mastering the New Rules of Risk-taking in Work and Life

In You Unstuck, Libby Gill uses cases studies, client stories from ...

USD $12.33

Buy online

CredentialsJD
Time in Practice6-10 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseRelationship Coach
Speaker/Presenter
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
Via a webcam
Licence informationExpiration 12/31/14
Number 83245
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket To Total Intimacy

Want more WOW in your relationship-in and out of the bedroom? ...

USD $13.46

Buy online

You Unstuck: Mastering the New Rules of Risk-taking in Work and Life

In You Unstuck, Libby Gill uses cases studies, client stories from ...

USD $12.33

Buy online