Shela Dean - Author, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Richmond, VA
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Shela Dean (JD)

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Articles

I Went to the Jon Stewart Rally and Got a Black Eye

During my marriage I’ve had two black ‘n blue eyes—one of them is just now fading, neither from Dale’s fist (violence isn’t in his nature even when he’s to-the-max irritated with me) and each a reminder of how moments of intimate togetherness pop up in surprising ways. Here’s how I got this one . . . Excited ...

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Your Marriage: Use it or Lose it

My friend Susie and her husband keep a joint journal of their marriage. When the spirit moves, he or she pulls the journal off the shelf and writes. They write about everyday things, express their feelings about something the other of them did that was hurtful, disappointing, thoughtful, or especially meaningful. ...

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Differences and the Perfect Halloween Costume

Halloween. Every year it’s a challenge to be creative and accommodating to my I’m-not-wearing-that sweetie at the same time. I love creative costumes. My ex was cooperative. He once allowed me to dress him as a topless dancer. The boobs I made for him out of balloons, cut up pantyhose, and baby ...

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Is Your Sex Life Missing Emotional Intimacy?

If your sex life isn’t what you want it to be, perhaps your emotional intimacy isn’t what it should be. An unshakable, trust-filled, emotional connection is the magic ingredient for off-the-chart sex. Sure, you can have feels-really-good sex with a stranger, but if you want committed-relationship sex ...

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How To Know He’s The One? Trust Your Intuition

Last week I had mother-daughter date night with my daughter Lisa, usually dinner (with catch up conversation) and then a movie. This week it was Eat, Pray, Love. I thought the movie was so-so but it was the trailer for an upcoming romantic comedy that got me thinking. It posed the question how do you know ...

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Shela Dean

Quick Stats

Credentials:

JD

Time in Practice:

6-10 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Relationship Coach

Speaker/Presenter

YourTango Expert Partner

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Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

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Licence information:

Expiration 12/31/14
Number 83245

Articles by Shela Dean
I Went to the Jon Stewart Rally and Got a Black Eye

I Went to the Jon Stewart Rally and Got a Black Eye

During my marriage I’ve had two black ‘n blue eyes—one of them is just now fading, neither from ...

Your Marriage: Use it or Lose it

Your Marriage: Use it or Lose it

My friend Susie and her husband keep a joint journal of their marriage. When the spirit moves, ...

Differences and the Perfect Halloween Costume

Differences and the Perfect Halloween Costume

Halloween. Every year it’s a challenge to be creative and accommodating to my ...

Is Your Sex Life Missing Emotional Intimacy?

How to establish emotional intimacy every day for better sex at night.

How To Know He’s The One? Trust Your Intuition

Last week I had mother-daughter date night with my daughter Lisa, usually dinner (with catch up ...

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Couples/Marital Issues