Shela Dean, Author

Shela Dean - Author, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Richmond, VA
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Having a great relationship doesn't require hard work unless you're working on the wrong things. I use humor, common sense, and been-there-done-that wisdom to show all couples, ...

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Kids Or Relationship First? It's A Non-Question

There’s a split among experts about whether the kids or the relationship should come first. Frankly, I think putting your relationship first is putting your kids first. Why? Because if you want your children to grow up and have healthy, well-balanced relationships, a fulfilling sex-life, and a good sense ...

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Avoid Complacency: 4 Tips on How to Date Your Mate

The enemy of a great relationship is complacency. It begins so innocently. You forget how attractive, funny or caring your honey is because you’re together all the time. You get wrapped up in your “stuff” and forget to do the little, day-to-day things that make your sweetheart aware of your ...

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Date Night: Not Just Another Chore

Date night. You know it’s good for your relationship. You want to. You mean to. But, darn it, you’re busy with a house to run, bills to pay, bosses to please, projects to complete, kids to care for—and on and on. Add the unexpected—sick kids, car problems, leaking pipes—and ...

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Need a Vacation? Have Sex

Eat your broccoli. It’s good for you. Take your cod liver oil. It’s good for you. Exercise daily. It’s good for you. Have sex. It’s good for you. Huh? Broccoli, cod liver oil, exercise and sex are all in the same do-it-cuz-it’s-good-for-you category. Don’t you ...

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5 Ways to Unwrap Your Holiday Honey

Yep, the holidays are here. It’s December 23—the work day is ending early, the final bows are getting tied and the fruitcakes are being boxed to regift. Ha! 

If your holiday haze is getting thicker and heavier, here are a few ways to release the ho hum and bring back the wow! For this to work, ...

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Success Stories

Great New Book Endorsement

Woo hoo! My book Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket to Total Intimacy was just given a great endorsement by Larry James, author of How to Really Love the One You're With. To buy my book visit my website at http://www.FrequentForeplayMiles.com. Thanks!

Marriage Saved

I recently got an email from a woman thanking me. Here's what she said;

I wanted to say thank you! You absolutely saved my marriage which, after 25 years, was on the brink of divorce. About 2 months after I read your book and followed your advice, my husband noticed the change in me. We were no longer fighting and I had stopped sniping at him. I shared your book with him. He read it in one sitting and couldn't put it down. That's when the real process of fixing our marriage began. We are talking more than we have in 10 years, are in love again, and the fireworks have been re-ignited! Thank you, Shela, for making the emotional love in our life stronger and for making the physical love happen again.

Shela Dean
Relationship Coach, Speaker & Bestselling Author
http://www.ShelaDean.com
http://www.FrequentForeplayMiles.com

CredentialsJD
Time in Practice6-10 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseRelationship Coach
Speaker/Presenter
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
Via a webcam
Licence informationExpiration 12/31/14
Number 83245
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket To Total Intimacy

Want more WOW in your relationship-in and out of the bedroom? ...

USD $13.46

Buy online

You Unstuck: Mastering the New Rules of Risk-taking in Work and Life

In You Unstuck, Libby Gill uses cases studies, client stories from ...

USD $12.33

Buy online

CredentialsJD
Time in Practice6-10 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseRelationship Coach
Speaker/Presenter
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
Via a webcam
Licence informationExpiration 12/31/14
Number 83245
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket To Total Intimacy

Want more WOW in your relationship-in and out of the bedroom? ...

USD $13.46

Buy online

You Unstuck: Mastering the New Rules of Risk-taking in Work and Life

In You Unstuck, Libby Gill uses cases studies, client stories from ...

USD $12.33

Buy online