Shela Dean - Author, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Richmond, VA
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Shela Dean (JD)

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Kids Or Relationship First? It's A Non-Question

There’s a split among experts about whether the kids or the relationship should come first. Frankly, I think putting your relationship first is putting your kids first. Why? Because if you want your children to grow up and have healthy, well-balanced relationships, a fulfilling sex-life, and a good sense ...

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Avoid Complacency: 4 Tips on How to Date Your Mate

The enemy of a great relationship is complacency. It begins so innocently. You forget how attractive, funny or caring your honey is because you’re together all the time. You get wrapped up in your “stuff” and forget to do the little, day-to-day things that make your sweetheart aware of your ...

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Date Night: Not Just Another Chore

Date night. You know it’s good for your relationship. You want to. You mean to. But, darn it, you’re busy with a house to run, bills to pay, bosses to please, projects to complete, kids to care for—and on and on. Add the unexpected—sick kids, car problems, leaking pipes—and ...

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Need a Vacation? Have Sex

Eat your broccoli. It’s good for you. Take your cod liver oil. It’s good for you. Exercise daily. It’s good for you. Have sex. It’s good for you. Huh? Broccoli, cod liver oil, exercise and sex are all in the same do-it-cuz-it’s-good-for-you category. Don’t you ...

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5 Ways to Unwrap Your Holiday Honey

Yep, the holidays are here. It’s December 23—the work day is ending early, the final bows are getting tied and the fruitcakes are being boxed to regift. Ha! 

If your holiday haze is getting thicker and heavier, here are a few ways to release the ho hum and bring back the wow! For this to work, ...

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Shela Dean

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Credentials:

JD

Time in Practice:

6-10 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Relationship Coach

Speaker/Presenter

YourTango Expert Partner

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Expiration 12/31/14
Number 83245

Articles by Shela Dean
couple family

Kids Or Relationship First? It's A Non-Question

Kids learn from watching you. Love them more than you fear living the life you want for them.

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Avoid Complacency: 4 Tips on How to Date Your Mate

The enemy of a committed relationship is complacency. The antidote: Dating!

couple happy

Date Night: Not Just Another Chore

Do you approach date night as just one more chore? Come on, be creative and have some fun!

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Need a Vacation? Have Sex

Tired of being told to have sex because it's good for you? Me, too. Have sex because it's fun!

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5 Ways to Unwrap Your Holiday Honey

The best holiday gift to unwrap? Your honey!

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Couples/Marital Issues