Think about men and where they like to go in groups; ruling out the local strip joint or nightclub of course. Sports bars and the gym are great because they’re like one big man-buffet! You can pretty much guarantee that all eyes will be on you when you walk into a male dominated place like a sports bar or gym!
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5. Go Online!
There are resources such as online dating sites or singles functions like speed dating. Stop rolling your eyes and hear me out! As someone who not only knows what it’s like to be a single woman dating, but also a single mom dating after divorce; it can be tough to really get yourself back out there in the dating game. Many working class individuals complain that they never have time to go out and meet anyone; so online dating helps to eliminate these barriers. Creating an online profile and selecting only quality online dating sites that include a compatibility test can be a really good start. As for speed dating, don’t knock it till you try it! Remember; you need to keep an open mind and at the very least the experience could be fun. Not to mention, since you’re only spending a few minutes at a time with each guy, you won’t have to tolerate the ones you don’t like for long and it is great dating practice! I find joining activities like salsa dancing, golf or rock climbing lessons, to be another great source for meeting men with similar interest.
The point is that you will never meet anyone while sitting on your couch and doing nothing while hoping for a man to drop on your lap, the same way you would never find a job this way. Shake yourself off of your mundane pattern of living, get out there, put your sexy D.I.V.A shoes on and you will find that there may be a surprise waiting for you at the other end of the rainbow!