Rediscover Your Partner's Sexy Side

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Rediscover Your Partner's Sexy Side
Improve your relationship one step at a time to get back to all-out sexiness.

Couples in long-term relationships often take each other for granted.  Although our partners mean the world to us, sometimes we can get bogged down in the everyday pressures of life and we unknowingly ignore their sexy side.  

How can someone we once thought to be the sexiest person walking on the face of the earth slowly turn into more of a friend than a lover?  Actually, this stage of a relationship is normal.  When two people are in a long-term relationship, living life side by side and facing the challenges and joys life brings, they are bound to become comfortable with one another.  This comfort level is a good thing.  It means you probably have a great relationship.  The trick is to get your relationship's sexy side back.  Here's how:

Take a few moments every day to admire his body.  Today, and everyday, spend a few minutes a day appreciating his physical attributes. Does he have nice buns?  Admire them.  Give them a rub as you walk by him in the kitchen.  Give them a quick kiss as he comes out of the shower.  Are his eyes to die for?  Spend a few moments looking into them in the morning before you get out of bed.  Shower them with gentle kisses.

Give him a massage to go over every inch of his body.  He won't refuse your touch.  Drizzle a seductive, gorgeous massage oil on his beautiful back, chest, manly arms, and sexy legs.  He's all yours.  Admire him.  Use soft pressure in slow circular movements.  He'll melt to your every wish.  You're heart will feel the ultimate warm, sexy connection with him.

Spontaneously put on your favorite, sexy music in the living room or bedroom.  Invite him to dance with you so you can watch his body move.  You can be guaranteed he'll be watching you too.

Remind yourself about his sexy personality.  Is he reliable?  Is he thoughtful of you?  Is he kind towards you?  Those attributes are sexy.  Luck you to have sexy him.

It's easy to ignore your lover's sexy side once you become life-long friends.  But it's also oh-so-fun to rediscover it.

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