5 Ways to Seduce Men the French Way


5 Ways to Seduce Men the French Way
Using your senses to create the perfect seduction

Many women are insecure about the way they look. They second guess themselves and their own beauty. It can be easy to end up lounging around life in comfortable and concealing sweatpants. Don’t let this happen to you! You’re gorgeous in every way and you must know this deep within. Confidence and self-assurance are sexy. If you don’t know you’re beautiful, then stand in front of a mirror for at least 15 minutes every day. Look at yourself and give yourself positive affirmations until you see your own beauty. It is only when you see yourself for the sexy seductress that you are, that men will, too.
French women wear lingerie every single day. They don’t just wear it for special occasions, nor do they reserve it for their lovers. They wear colorful, flattering, matching sets with lace and silk for themselves because they know it helps them feel more beautiful. Maybe no one knows the French mademoiselle at the office is wearing a Chantelle Thomass thong and bra under her business suit, but she knows. In this way, her seduction is her secret weapon.

French women understand the value of lingerie and they use it all time to seduce their lover. Just think of all the beautiful undergarments we wear that have been given French names! (The word bra, for example, comes from the French word brassiere). Remember, lingerie doesn’t only include just bras and panties. It is négligées….another French word…..as in, sexy, satin nighties with a length that goes to the floor. It is bustiers (yes, French again!), also known as corsets. It is sexy stockings and pretty, lacy, form-fitting undergarments.

Ditch the granny panties and invest in some quality lingerie. If you’re not comfortable showing off too much of your body, there are tons of different lingerie styles for every body type. Find the one that you makes you feel your best. Find colors and textures that look and feel good against your skin. You can always throw on a sheer robe if it helps you feel more comfortable to be covered up. 

When you invite your lover over for an evening of seduction, answer the door in your lingerie. It could be a French maid’s outfit (men love this!) or nothing but a pair of fishnet stockings and hot high heels. When you make love, leave something on and let your body peak through. For instance, wear a sheer bra with lace so he can see your nipples through the fabric. Then, before he leaves, secretly put a piece of your lingerie in his pants pocket or briefcase so when he finds it later, he will remember your encounter (do this only if you’re in an exclusive, monogamous relationship or else it looks like a jealous attempt to mark your territory!).

- Sienna Sinclaire® - The Single Girl ®: Your Naughty Lifestyle Guide

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