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2 HELLA-HOT Sex Tips That'll Make Your Man Crave Your Vagina

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2 HELLA-HOT Sex Tips That Will Make Your Man Crave You
Love, Sex

Turn up the HEAT.

A man is fairly easy to arouse in the beginning. He sees a pretty girl and immediately enters his primal and virile "win-her-over" stage.

You might be used to that, and most of the time you end up fighting off his advances, lest you become a first date lay.

After a couple has sex, particularly after a long-term relationship, the initial attraction begins to subside. Then it's up to the both of you to keep things creative. This is where you might have to pick up the slack, because a lot of decent men (bless their hearts) are just not that creative.

Not to worry, you can use your feminine wiles and streak of mad imagination to get your guy's motor running. Try these these 2 handy but hot tips to arouse him tonight:

1. Let him see it all


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And by "seen it all", we mean he's seen every inch of your body, enough to pick your ass out of a line up of Playboy centerfolds. So, your first line offense is to deny him the nudity he takes for granted.

Dress up in lacy underwear, lingerie or something sexy, but don't ask for sex. Let him watch you strut your stuff.

Another great way to sexually arouse a man is to subtly mirror his body movements and voice. This is actually a means of seduction, as mirroring the appearance and movements of another person makes them think you understand them and can relate to them.

Bonus points for telling him a sexy story in a nonchalant, passing way (for example: "I saw this movie... " or "One time my friend...")  You can actually summon some sexual urges by direct command, as long as you play coy about it and don't come across as too obvious.

2. Be as blunt as possible


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All right, honey. If you're not one for subtlety, then why not just go all out and act like the vixen you have deep inside of you?

Most guys fantasize about meeting and screwing an aggressive female and your man will have no complaints if you let your inner beast out and initiate some unusual, and very naughty sex.

Think about seducing him in the shower or a tub, or somewhere in the outdoors where you could be caught. (Er, but not in grocery store.. .I'm paying for those melons, OK?) 

Another great idea is to seduce him in a quiet theater or in a car — somewhere that he least expects.

Of course, reaching out and attacking his pork dagger is not always an option, especially if he's grunting or snarling and may be in a piss-y mood. So the best way to test for erections is to start with a slow and light massage. Don't make it a project, just put your hands on his shoulders.

If he seems responsive give him more of a massage, a deeper one, and eventually ask him if he wants a full body massage. Use massage oil and full sensuous strokes over his entire body. Eventually the happy ending that he craves will come.

You can also nab his attention from the TV with sexy dance moves and erotic "sweet nothings", peppered by four-letter words. Guys also love it when you send X-rated texts throughout the day.

Last but not least, if your guy needs a little encouragement, tie that naughty boy up to the bed post with handcuffs, restraints or even pantyhose. Dance in front of him and then begin slowly kissing and petting, restricting his movement.

Just when he's ready to lose it and beg for a release, that's when you begin slow and sloppy cock torture.

The secret to successfully sexually arousing a man is all in theatrics. Surprise him. Be unpredictable and when you make a move, do it confidently and without an apology. 

Congratulations on graduation Tramp Class, ladies!

Now give that horny a guy a taste of his own medicine. If you really want to blow his mind and tease him in a way he can not refuse, watch this presentation now!

 

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