How To Go Down On A Woman To Make Her Orgasm EVERY. DAMN. TIME.

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She'll thank you over and over.

You probably already know that going down on a woman is the easiest way to make a woman orgasm. You might have also heard that guys who master this skill get much hotter sex, and a lot more often.

It’s one of the easiest ways to make her want sex as much as (if not more than) you.

The problem is most guys have no clue how to go down and perform oral sex on a woman.

Sure most guys can find a woman's clitoris with their tongue while rubbing her g-spot with their fingers… and that can make her orgasm if you do it right. But this is barely scratching the surface of how much pleasure you can deliver with your mouth.

If you want to make her orgasm virtually any time YOU choose… If you want her to go down on you A LOT more (and LOVE doing it)… If you want to give her so much pleasure that her entire body shakes in heart pounding, toe-curling orgasmic eruptions BEFORE you even get to penetration…

Use these 4 cunnilingus tips to make her orgasm every time during oral sex:

1. Make her feel confident and safe.

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The media and society do a powerfully potent job of making women feel self-conscious about their vaginas.

"Feminine hygiene product" commercials make her worry about her smell and taste.

Movies featuring female porn stars who’ve had vaginal rejuvenation surgery and wear makeup on their vulva can cause the most confident woman to question the appearance of her own vagina.

And of course, there’s no shortage of people just waiting for an opportunity to label a woman as "undesirably promiscuous" (in far more profane and offensive words) if she even talks about acting on her fantasies and desires.

So if you want to cause your woman to release the most powerful and pleasurable orgasms her body is capable of having, YOU need to give her mind and body the freedom and safety to completely let go and unleash that dirty side of her that’s just waiting to come out.

So make sure to tell her how gorgeous her body is and how much her intoxicating aroma turns you on. And don’t say it as if you’re surprised or privileged, say it as though it’s just a simple matter of fact.

Moan and let her see that smiling squint in your eyes. Perform oral sex on her OFTEN so that she knows how much you LOVE IT.

And never, EVER judge anyone’s sexual preferences, fantasies or fetishes. It’s a surefire way to make her repress her true desires in bed out of fear that she’ll be judged next.

2. Use the right type of foreplay.

The average lover puts very little thought or intention into his foreplay other than just trying to get to "the next step" — or more accurately, the final step.

A lot of guys also think of foreplay as a necessary evil that "has to happen" if they ever want to get laid.

They randomly kiss and touch different parts of her body until they think "it was long enough". This makes their "foreplay" boring, predictable, and transparent.

The master approaches foreplay very differently. The master uses foreplay to make his woman imagine, crave and usually beg for the next step BEFORE he gives it to her.

When you approach foreplay in this way, it’s not only A LOT more fun for you… it also makes her MUCH more aroused AND it makes giving her orgasms easier.

So how can you make it happen? How can you inject a sense of NEED in your woman that’s so strong her body to physically aches for you while she begs you to finally let her have it?

Create a desire in her, by igniting and engaging her IMAGINATION, then amplify that desire by putting obstacles in the way.

It sounds a little counter-intuitive (which is probably why most guys don't do it)... so let's look at an example. Here’s one of my favorite ways to do this before giving a woman oral.

Get her to the point where she only has her underwear on. Spend some time kissing, touching and teasing her inner thighs, the small of her back, her pubic bone — all the erogenous zones surrounding her panties.

Next, instead of taking her underwear off right away (like most guys do) start licking and rubbing THROUGH her panties. This will get her imagining what it would be like to have your lips and tongue pleasuring her without those darn panties in the way.

Keep going and use your saliva to make a wet spot right above her clitoris. When she starts moaning, breathing heavier pushing her pelvis up into your face, pull back about 3 inches and lightly blow on the wet spot you just made.

This will get her focusing on the obstacle that’s preventing her from having more pleasure. Her underwear become the obstacle she has to get around in order to get the pleasure what she wants.

Now she’ll be the one trying to get them off as quickly as possible! Works like magic!

3. Stimulate her entire clitoris, not just the head.

Most of us have been taught that the clitoris is a small "pea-shaped button" found above her vaginal opening. The truth is that it’s only 1 of the 18 parts and the more you simulate, the harder she orgasms!

The clitoris is actually an entire network of nerve endings that are woven throughout her entire vulva and vaginal canal. Cunnilingus masters always stimulate (at least a few of) the other parts before getting to the clitoral head.

Her outer vaginal lips (the ones that will have hair if she doesn’t shave) hold the clitoris’ legs. They’re filled with nerve endings and also impressively sturdy so they can take a lot of sucking, massaging and even some pinching… when done right.

The u-spot is another highly pleasurable hot spot that most guys don’t take advantage of. It’s right between her clitoral head and vaginal opening. Lick the tip of your index finger and lightly rub it against her u-spot to get her trembling with anticipation.

Like your penis, her clitoris also has a shaft, and having it "stroked" feels amazing. Since it’s so small, just use the tips of your thumb and index finger to lightly stimulate it. 

The more time you spend stimulating all these different parts of the clitoris BEFORE you get to the clitoral head… the easier and quicker she’ll orgasm! You’ll also set yourself apart as a superior lover because most guys just don’t know this stuff… let alone how to do any of it properly.

4. Stop using fancy techniques and be the best she's ever had. 

If you’re hunting for the "perfect oral sex technique" that’s going to make you the cunnilingus king in your city… STOP!

Stop it NOW!

Look, some women are A LOT more sensitive than others and can only handle the lightest licks to their clitoris before erupting into orgasm. Others are nowhere near as sensitive and will only peak if you suck on their clitoris with lots of intense pressure.

Some clitoral heads have the bulk of their nerve endings dead center while others have them clumped over to one side. A few (very few) women even have the majority of their clitoral nerve endings "hidden" in their u-spot and won’t orgasm unless it's properly stimulated.

Different women get off on different sensations. So if you want to give her the best oral sex of her entire life… Stop looking for "the best technique" and start ADAPTING your favorite technique to meet her preferences.

Start with one of the "basic" techniques that work for almost all women (such as using the tip of your tongue to lick back and forth against her clitoris).

Then test the speed, pressure, going side to side versus up and down, flicking only your tongue vs. keeping your tongue in place and moving your head. Keep refining your technique until that baby is fine-tuned and tailor made to fit perfectly with her orgasmic weaknesses.

It’s the most sure-fire way to make sure that you’re the best she’s ever had no matter which of the 67 techniques you’re using. 

Watch the 67 ways to make her orgasm first video, then use the adaption strategies you’ll learn inside and blow her mind like no other man ever has! 

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