Confessions Of A Straight Man Who LOVES Giving Blowjobs

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Confessions of A Straight Man
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We don’t consciously decide to get aroused or not. It just happens.

Like any straight male with a pulse, I’ve always enjoyed watching the occasional girl-on-girl porn. But I never would have imagined just how drastically one lesbian scene could change my sex life forever.

Both girls were drop-dead gorgeous and I had just finished watching one deliciously devour the other. After a minute of recuperating, the girl that just had an orgasm started to undress the other.

She took off her bra and then got down on her knees to slowly peel off her panties… and that’s when it happened.

A semi-erect penis fell out of them.


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Her bulge hadn’t been noticeable because it was previously tucked between her legs, but now it was right there in front of me.

I had been watching a shemale on female porno and hadn’t even realized it. A screaming voice in my head said, "This is disgusting!" even though my throbbing erection obviously thought different.

I’d never been sexually attracted to a man in my entire life. Not that I had any problem with anyone who was gay, I just knew I wasn’t. Yet there I was, hard as a rock, and technically a male was responsible for it.

Not sure if I wanted to continue watching, my brain started analyzing the situation logically.

"I’ll watch a girl giving a guy head, so wouldn’t this be even better? I mean, I don’t have to look at some dude's hairy body or masculine face and I can enjoy twice the boobs, butts and pretty faces."

Watching this made sense.


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Unfortunately, society had programmed me since I was a young boy to believe that I am and should be straight. No crossing swords!

So here’s the first lesson you might want to take away from this story.

We don’t consciously decide to get aroused or not — we either get aroused, or we don’t. However, we can consciously augment, guide and liberate our arousal by logically walking ourselves through it.

So, for example, if you have any fears or phobias about giving oral sex, know that you can get over them. If you don’t yet enjoy giving head, you can make yourself love it. More on how to do that in a minute.

Let’s get back to the story.

As I kept watching more and more shemale videos, that condemning voice in my head kept fading further and further into the background. I started to imagine myself as a third participant in one of these hot shemale on female scenes and wondered what I would and wouldn’t do.

Once again, the logical part of my brain stepped in and gave me some guidance. It started by revisiting a question that every guy asks himself at some point in his life: "If I could, would I give myself a blow job?"

The answer (for me) was a resounding "YES!"


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So I obviously didn’t have a problem putting a penis in my mouth, my problem was with having another man's penis in my mouth.

But when I was watching an attractive shemale online, I saw a woman. Yes she had a penis, but "she" still had the feminine features I was attracted to.

Since I didn’t have a problem putting a penis in my mouth (as long as it doesn’t belong to some dude) and I love giving oral sex to women, I realized that I would give a blowjob to a hot shemale.

Once again, by "logically" working my way through my inner conflict, I was able to free myself from the stigma of being a guy who wanted to give a BJ.

As I kept watching videos of beautiful shemales, my desire to suck one of them off kept increasing and getting stronger.

Eventually the line between smoking hot shemale and feminine-looking guy started to blur until I eventually didn’t care whose body the penis was attached to; I just wanted to give a blowjob.


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Yes, I realize that by definition, this makes me bisexual, and I’ll sometimes call myself that because it’s easier to explain. However I’ve still never been attracted to male features (IE: pecs and abs, scruffy face, hairy body.) This is why I call myself a "straight" guy who loves giving blowjobs.

Anyway, it took me more than two years for me to finally order my first realistic dildo from the internet.

When it showed up in the mail, my excitement quickly turned to insecurity as I realized that giving blowjobs wasn’t quite as simple as I’d been imagining.

Here’s a little secret you might not know: straight guys think giving a blow job is easy. They think "Simple, just take it down your throat and don’t let your teeth touch it."

Straight guys are completely oblivious to the amount of effort that goes into a blowjob…let alone a great one.

As determined as I was to give my first blowjob, make it great, and tell society to shove its rules and stigmas, I started doing some research and discovered another dirty secret about giving blowjob: no one really teaches how to give world-class blowjobs.

Women write articles and books based on what they think works and on what guys have told them feels good… but they still have no idea what it feels like to get sucked off.


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Then there are the guys who are even more clueless because they teach what they like and don’t like, but have no idea how to give a blowjob.

After reading hundreds of articles and dozens of books on the topic, I kept seeing this same pattern over and over. Lots of one-sided advice from givers who don’t know what it feels like to receive and receivers who don’t know the first thing about how to give.

I started practicing everything I learned on my dildo but it wasn’t until I met another bisexual guy that I really started to master it.

I was finally able to give and receive all the techniques I had spent so much time learning and because I was able to experience both sides. I learned things that weren’t taught in any article, book or video course.

I discovered how to give any man (or "woman") the best blowjob of their life!

So, what are the 3 key points to take away from this story?

  1. You can learn to LOVE giving blowjobs, even if you hate it now.
  2. No matter how good or bad your head game might be right now, you can learn how to give world-class blowjobs.
  3. Learning blow job tips and tricks from straight men and women can be helpful, but if you really want to master the art, you must learn form someone who has a lot of experience both giving and receiving.

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