Don't Think Like A Man

Yes, we love to hear the male’s perspective on women and how we can improve ourselves but going to such drastic measures as trying to think like a man is a recipe for disaster. This disastrous thought process will create a huge confusing ball of mess. Women! My ladies! Let me talk to you woman to woman about ...

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He Calls Me Ethel!

Who is Ethel? Ethel is me and I am Ethel, at least that’s what I’m told. Spank refers to me as Ethel because he has a “boring” wife. When I think of myself I don’t usually equate boring to me. Heck, I think I’m a pretty fun person and kind of funny too. Spank, on the other ...

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5 Ways To Be A Lady

As I was perusing the blogosphere, I came across an article on Very Smart Brotha's site which listed the life rules he will always follow. I enjoyed his list so much that I was inspired to publicize my "will always follow" relationship rules. A lot of my rules were learned as a child and there were ...

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His And Hers: How To Define Roles In A Relationship

The piles of clean clothes are piled up on the couch in the basement waiting to be folded. The dirty clothes hampers are overflowing in every room. There is no time to wash! Go out and by a new outfit to wear to the party doesn't sound like a bad idea. The kids need help with their homework. Why not have ...

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Married to Him: One Couple's Story

Leaving wasn't as easy as I thought it was. I really didn't want to move back home with my parents especially since I had a baby. But I had to put some sort of plan into action and quick. He was due home in a couple days. He called maybe twice since he left and each time he started an argument. He began ...

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