Keeping the spark alive is one of the main goals for most couples. When the initial excitement of a new relationship dies down, it can be difficult trying to rekindle it (especially your sex life). How can you keep the spark burning as long as possible? Sexy texts. Sexy text messages are very self-explanatory. In fact, you could probably think of three different sexy texts to send your man right now without much effort.
While actually coming up with sexy text messages to send to your man is easy, how you use them requires a bit more thought and finesse. So before giving you the 19 sexting examples, I need to explain some crucial things.
Sexy Texts Should NOT Be An Everyday Thing
Part of the initial spark with your partner is the freshness and unpredictability that you get to experience at the start of your relationship as you find out about each other. This is something that you absolutely must keep in mind when using sexy text messages.
If you send your man a message everyday, then it's going to lose its power to turn him on and arouse him quickly. A much better strategy is to send your man sexy text messages sparingly — about 1 or 2 per week, at completely different times. This way, each message he receives will be a real surprise.
Mix It Up — Be Naughty AND Nice
Just like in my previous point about varying when you send your man a sexy text message, you also need to vary the content of your message.
Some texts you send your man should be very explicit and detail how you are feeling or what you are going to do to him later, while others should be much tamer and less suggestive. When you mix it up, your man will never know what to expect, which is perfect for keeping the spark alive in your relationship.
Now — the moment you've been WAITING for! — here are 19 sexy text messages that are sure to keep the spark alive:
1. "Just saw something really hot that made me think of you."
2. "What would you like me to wear to bed tonight?"
3. "Would you be mad if I made out with a girl?"
4. "I don't know why, but all I want right now is sex."
5. "I dreamt that I was your sex slave last night, it was hot — very hot"
6. "What would you say if I suggested some sex in public?"
7. "When you get home, let's watch some porn, seriously."
8. "If you can guess what color my panties are, then I'll give you a blow job when you get home."
9. "I loved sleeping with you last night."
10. "I don't know if this is normal, but my legs get weak when you kiss me."
11. "I wish you were here right now. I'm too dam horny!"
12. "I'm going to wear the shortest skirt I have tonight"
13. "What's the hottest thing I can do for you when I see you?"
14. "If you could only have regular, anal or oral sex for the rest of your life, what would you choose?"
15. "I really miss you. I wish we were together right now."
16. "I just had the dirtiest thought about you ever. Too dirty to text — wow, I'll tell about it later."
17. "What would you say if I suggested we spent all day Saturday in bed?"
18. "Can't wait to kiss you later."
19. "The way you hold me is so hot."
Notice how some of these messages are very dirty and explicit, while others are quite tame?
Perfect for keeping things interesting!
If you want to learn even more about how to keep things red hot, then you might be interested in the Bad Girl's Bible, where you'll learn everything you need to know to sexually satisfy your man. And if you want to keep him obsessed and lusting after you, then you can learn the exact words to use from this dirty talking tutorial video.