Being great in bed and having a solid relationship are massively intertwined. You really can't have one without the other. That's why today, I'm going to show you how to take care of the 'being great in bed' part using asdf very powerful sex techniques.
(P.S. If you want to learn my best blowjob tips and techniques, you'll find them in this powerful video. Enjoy!)
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Now, you don't need to use every one of them the next time you and your man are in bed together. If you are going to try that then you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself. A much better way is to only use one or two of these sexual techniques at a time and really master them before trying the next ones.
1. Dominate Him!
When you read the word domination, your mind may go straight to the idea of whips and chains. The truth is that whips and chains can certainly play a part in your sex life if you want them to, but you don't have to be that extreme to use a little domination on your man.
Dominating your man can encompass a huge number of different aspects. Everything from simply being on top of him during sex all the way to controlling every aspect of his life. If you are just starting out, then you need to stay on the tamer side of things and slowly build up to the kinkier stuff. Here are a few examples of how to dominate your man, starting with the easiest and tamest sex techniques and then moving into slightly kinkier territority:
- During sex, be the one to change what position you are having sex in. So grab his hand or arm and manipulate him into position.
- The next time you are both alone push him down on a chair (or your bed), unzip his fly and start giving him a blow job
- Pull his hair the next time you are having sex. Make sure not to do it too hard though!
- Tie his arms to the bed and ride him in the cowgirl position during sex.
- Give him a few light slaps the next time you are having sex.
2. Don't Forget To Blow
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One of the most powerful sex techniques that you can ever use on your man is giving him a good blow job. Most people think that giving a good blow job is easy, that all they need to do is bob their head up and down on their man. There is actually way more to making your blow job skill top notch. Here are just a few of the important techniques:
#1 Your hands are just as important as your mouth. Just because it's called oral sex does not mean that you can completely forget about using your hands on your man. Not only will it give him a different sensation, but it means that you can also give your mouth a rest.
#2 There's more than just a gearstick to play with. Don't make the mistake of only focusing on your man's penis. His balls and even his bum are almost as sensitive. You'll even notice that he finds you stroking all along his groin to be very hot too.
#3 There is a huge variation to what you can do. You can kiss, lick, suck, squeeze, massage and rub his penis while giving him a blow job. For more techniques to use on him, check out this powerful bj tutorial video.