How To Talk Dirty The Right Way: The 2 Secrets You NEED To Know

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Dirty Talk: How To Talk Dirty The Right Way
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He'll loooove hearing what you have to say.

Talking dirty is surprisingly easy. I'm going to give you a very simple roadmap that is going to teach you how to talk dirty to your man without getting nervous or feeling awkward about it, while turning your man on in a big way.

When it comes to talking dirty, most people think that in order to sound sexy and hot you need to be over-the-top, graphic, vulgar and nasty when choosing your words. I'm not sure why so many people believe this, but I have a sneaking suspicion it's because most people's first contact with dirty talk is through pornography.

Anyway, let me enlighten you with really easy ways to learn how to talk dirty.

1. Start with easy phrases.

The first thing you need to do is choosing something easy so there's no chance for failure. This is perfect for building up your confidence. The easiest thing you can do if you want to be more vocal is to simply sigh, moan and groan louder than you normally would. This works best if you have your mouth right next to your man's ear.

So what kinds of things should you moan?

  • "Mmmm"
  • "Ohhh"
  • "Yes"
  • "Aahhh"

That's it. There's literally nothing else you need to do to show him that you're enjoying yourself and that he's turning you on.

2. Incorporate one or two word phrases.

Once you have tried moaning, breathing and sighing in your man's ear, the next thing you need to do is start actually using words when talking dirty. Thankfully, this is easy. You aren't going to be using super-long sentences or dirty talk phrases; you're simply going to use one or two words.

What kinds of things can you say to your man? Try these dirty talking examples:

  • "Wow"
  • "Don't stop"
  • "Faster"
  • "Deeper"
  • "Keep going"

You don't have to shout these phrases; simply whispering them in your man's ear works perfectly. After trying these dirty words with your man and building up your confidence a bit, start switching between sighing and using dirty words. If you only get this far with talking dirty, you'll already be ahead of the majority of women learning how to talk dirty.

3. Use descriptive, longer phrases.

Once you have mastered both moaning and using one- or two-word dirty talk phrases, it's time to use whole phrases when in bed with your man. The key to doing this confidently is first using short dirty phrases and then move on to using longer and more descriptive phrases.

Here are a few short phrases you can use on your man:

  • "You feel so good!"
  • "I want to feel you deep!"
  • "I love you on top!"
  • "I just want to be yours."

When you're reasonably comfortable using these short phrases, then you should try to incorporate longer ones like these:

  • "I wish you could just do that all night long!"
  • "I love seeing you on top of me, dominating me!"
  • "I just want to be your little toy, someone for you to use."
  • "Feeling you inside me is incredible. I've been missing you all week!"

Both the short and long phrases are equally effective, but the longer phrases are a little harder to remember in the heat of the moment.

Once you're comfortable using all these different types of naughty talk, it's time to get creative by coming up with your own dirty talking lines and phrases.

At first, you'll find that it's easier to actually think them up and memorize them before you're in bed with your man, but as time passes and your confidence increases, talking dirty will become second nature to you and you'll be able to think up dirty things to say on the spot.

So now that you have a roadmap on how to talk dirty to your man inside the bedroom, what about outside the bedroom? Talking dirty outside the bedroom is a little different than talking dirty inside the bedroom.

When you're talking dirty outside the bedroom, you need to be more subtle and less direct. This is so you can build sexual tension with your man.

What kinds of phrases and lines should you use on your man when talking dirty outside the bedroom? Try these:

  • "I wish there weren't so many people around. If they weren't here, you'd be in for a surprise."
  • "If I didn't have to go right now, I would give you some special attention with my mouth."
  • "I wish I didn't have to go because for some reason I'm really turned on right now."

Now start dirty talking!

 

 

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