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5 Tips For Sucking His Penis That'll Drive Him WIIIIIILD

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You won't want to miss these tips.

There is absolutely no need to be nervous when learning how to give a blowjob. You'll find that it's actually surprisingly easy to do even if you don't have that much experience. All you need is the right advice.

With that in mind, the following 5 tips on giving your man incredible oral sex will get you up to speed quickly with giving your man a fantastic blowjob.

1. Get the right attitude.

When learning how to give a blowjob, you'll find that the biggest factor is attitude. Attitude plays a role that is far more important than any technique you can use on him. When you have an attitude where you are enthusiastic and looking forward to having a fun sexual time with your man, then he will be able to sense it. This is far sexier and more of a turn-on for him than just mechanically giving him oral sex like you are some sort of robot.

So think about it for a minute: what's your attitude when you are usually going down on him? It's perfectly fine to be quiet and shy about it, provided that you do it with enthusiasm. Even if you learn nothing else from this article, the next time you give oral sex to your man, do it with enthusiasm. He will be pleasantly surprised!

2. Build up the sexual tension.

Having an enthusiastic attitude is crucial when learning how to give a blowjob. But another simple thing that you do to increase his pleasure is to pay some attention to how you build up the sexual tension before you actually go down on him.

In almost every case, you'll find that a long, slow build up makes for a better blowjob as well as far more enjoyable orgasms. So think about this the next time you are planning it: Are you going to jump him and suddenly start doing it? Or are you going to slowly build up to it by hinting at it and teasing your man about it all day long so he is practically begging you for oral sex? Which sounds more satisfying to your man?

3. Pay attention to the head of his penis.

One myth that many believe when learning how to give a blowjob is that deeper is better. They think that if they can take their man deep into their mouth, he will get more pleasure from it. This is not necessarily true.

You see, the most sensitive part of your man's penis is the top 1 inch. The rest of his penis is not nearly as sensitive. So if you want to make sure that you pleasurably give him oral sex, you need to pay most of your attention to the top part of his member.

Taking him deep into your mouth won't allow you to do this. Instead, you'll find that only taking the first inch or two into your mouth and using your tongue to massage and lick the head of his penis ultimately gives him far more pleasure.

4. Use your hands and fingers.

When going down on your man and sucking him, you may be completely preoccupied with giving him oral pleasure. Obviously, this is a good thing. But you'll find that you can greatly increase the amount of pleasure he receives by using your hands and fingers to work the rest of his genitals too.

A great way to use your hands while giving a blowjob is to softly fondle his testicles between your fingers. Also, try cupping them in your hand and lightly squeezing them (just make sure that you don't squeeze too hard). If you get bored of just touching, fondling and lightly squeezing them, you should use your hand to massage his shaft while giving him oral sex.

5. Keep things fresh.

Ever hear that phrase "Variety is the spice of life"? It couldn't be more true and apt when it comes to your sex life and when learning how to give a blowjob. Giving your man oral sex regularly is definitely something that he'll appreciate. But if you want him to have an awesome time, every time, then make sure to vary what techniques, maneuvers and tricks you use on him.

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The techniques you have just read are some of my more basic ones. If you want to learn how to truly blow his mind with oral sex, then you may want to use some of the powerful techniques from this instructional video.

 

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