Start by asking him if there is anything that he'd like to try out in the bedroom. This is a nice, relaxed way to start exploring what he really gets turned on by. Then once he can see that you are comfortable exploring what he likes, he will start to really open up to you and talk to you about what really gets him off.
The main thing that you must do in this situation is be understanding. You don't necessarily need to try everything that he shares with you, but you do need to be understanding and non-judgemental.
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Fetish Bonus: As well as learning about your man's fetishes to spice up your sex life, it can be just as fun to share yours with him too and then eventually act on them. It's also a great way to connect with your man as he is sharing his.
3. Quick Oral Tips
The last topic that I want to cover on how to spice up your sex life is oral sex. Men love getting blowjobs from their partner for a number of reasons. The main one is that it just feels fantastic!
Another strongly powerful reason that your man loves them is that most men like to be the 'dominant' & 'powerful' partner, while their girlfriend is the more submissive one. And giving your man a blowjob, especially while down on your knees is a very submissive act indeed.
While you will find far more blowjob tips in this section, I want to give you a few quick tips right now to get you started:
Wetter Is Better - Men much prefer getting wet sloppy blowjobs as opposed to dry and rough ones. So the next time you go down on him, don't worry if you are producing a lot of saliva. More than likely, your man will love it.
Do More Than Bob - The classic blow job technique is to take his penis into your mouth and simply bob your head up and down, with your lips moving over it. This is perfectly fine, but you should know that there is so much more that you can do to his penis. Don't forget that you can lick it, kiss it, tickle it with your tongue, suck it, massage it and more.
Get Around Town - What I mean when I say, 'Get Around Town' is that you should also try to pay attention to the areas around your man's penis. His balls, inner thighs and perineum are all super sensitive. So if you can stimulate these areas while giving him a blowjob at the same time, then your man is going to be a very happy camper indeed! Don't forget to check out the Bad Girl's Bible for my most 'out there' blowjob & sex tips.
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