It can be a little nerve wrecking when you first try to become more proactive in bed with your man. Don't let this worry you, it's totally natural. The important thing is to keep on trying. As you do, you're confidence will build and you'll be surprised at how fast you improve.
6. Think About What You Say To Him - If you are normally almost silent in bed, then it may be time to start getting a little more vocal. Most guys really love it when their partner talks dirty in bed. You don't necessarily need to sound like crazy pornstar when talking dirty to your man, but do at least moan loudly and let him know when he's doing something that you particularly enjoy.
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Again you don't have to scream out long, descriptive sentences. Simply whispering in his ear that you love it when he does something in a certain way or even moaning in his ear is the perfect way to make sex much hotter and pleasurable for both of you. You may find the dirty talking section from the Bad Girl's Bible to be helpful for building your confidence and as well as learning specific dirty things to say to your man
7. Don't Be Afraid Of Trying New Things - The main reason guys (& girls) get bored in bed is because they fall into a routine. They end up using the same 2 or 3 moves in bed and as a result they stop looking forward to and getting excited about making love.
This is one of those deadly relationship killers. Yes, boredom is bad for your sex life, but it's actually worse for your relationship in general. To counteract this routine and potential boredom, you need to constantly try new things, which leads us to...
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8. Get Some Great Advice! - If you are serious about learning how to pleasure your man in bed, then you need to constantly work on and improve your skillset. Yes, great sex really is a skill that you can learn, just like any other. If you are looking for even more advice on how to pleasure your guy, then you'll find my best tactics in this detailed & powerful blow job video tutorial. Click here to check it out now.