How To Orgasm: 4 Simple Steps To Your Best Orgasm Ever!

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4 Simple Steps To The Best Orgasm Ever [EXPERT]
Think you can't climax during intercourse? Think again!

3. Turn off the lights and turn on some music. Turning the lights off when you have sex has a powerful effect. If you are self-conscious about your body, you'll find that having sex in the dark takes away a lot of the pressure.

In the dark, your partner can't see your body, he can't make eye contact with you and he can't see what you are doing. This takes a lot of the anxiety out of sex for many people.

Listening to music is great for filling the room with sound that drowns out the sounds you and your partner are making. It can also turn you on and add extra eroticism to your sex session if it's a band or artist that puts you in the mood.

4. Explore what turns you on. Relaxing and turning the lights off is all very good when it comes to learning how to have an orgasm, but it's a little passive.  In order to be more active, find things that turn you on and bring you closer to orgasm. If you want to know how to orgasm every time you sex,  you need to get to know your body intimately.

Think of it as fun homework! Spend a few nights alone in bed, learning about what you enjoy, what turns you on and what brings you closer to orgasm. It could be direct clitoral stimulation, penetration with a dildo or vibrator, or even simple sipple stimulation.

No matter what it is that arouses you and turns you on the most, it's important to find out. When you discover what enables you to orgasm easily, relay the information to your partner so that he can apply what you learned when you're together.

If you enjoyed learning these 4 tips on how to orgasm, but want a true sex masterclass, then you may be interested in this detailed video tutorial on how to talk dirty to your man to build sexual tension, turn him on and make sex amazing. You also may be interested in this oral sex video, where I'll show you 3 powerful blowjob tips to drive your man insane with please. Enjoy!

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