Unlike you clitoris, it's located inside your vagina on the front wall. It feel slightly rough to touch, very much like the top of your palate in your mouth.
There are a number of ways you can stimulate it. You can make a 'come-hither' motion with your fingers to massage it or you can hold your fingers pressed against it, and move the rest of your arm to stimulate it. How you do it is really up to you, but make sure to do some experimentation to find out what you enjoy the most.
Using Lube - If you have trouble reaching orgasm, or you just plain want to have a more pleasurable, sensual experience, then I strongly recommend using lubricant (usually called lube). There are many different types of lube whether it's water based, oil based or made from something else. So make sure to experiment with each to find out which you prefer and to see which type helps to give you the strongest orgasms.
Using Toys - A great way to intensify your orgasms when learning how to masturbate is to use sex toys. There are a number of different ones that you can use.
Vibrators are probably the best, but make sure to spend a little extra when buying one so that you can get one with adjustably speeds. The vibrators that are stuck at a high speed can prove to be too strong & intense for some.
Dildos are great for replacing your man when he's not around. You'll also find that you a lot of dildos double up as vibrators.
While there a huge variety of different sex toys that you can use on yourself, the last one that I'm going to talk about using is the butt plug. Using a butt plug while masturbating is something many women (but not all) find to intensify their orgasms when they masturbate.
Porn - Some love porn when masturbating...some hate it. It's all a matter of personal preference. The next time you have some time and are alone while masturbating, try watching some porn to see if it intensifies the experience for you. But don't feel that you have to watch it. Some enjoy it, while others don't.
Erotica - Many see erotic novels as the female equivalent of pornography. Again, they are not for everyone, but are definitely worth trying at least once to see if they have any effect on what you fantasise and think about while you masturbate.
More Powerful Tips, Tactics & Techniques - These techniques you have just read are some of my more basic tips on how to pleasure yourself and masturbate. If you want to learn about how to turn on and attract a man, then you may like the techniques I teach in this presentation. If you want to learn how to give your man great oral pleasure then you'll probably want to check out and use what I teach in this detailed & powerful video tutorial.
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