Finding a great guy is tough. Keeping a great guy is even harder. If you want to keep him around, then learning how to make him addicted to you is crucial. Here are four things that you can use to make your man addicted to you...
(P.S. If you want to learn my best dirty talking tips & techniques for building sexual tension & turning him on, you’ll find them in this powerful video)
1. Being incredible in bed. Without a doubt, by far the most important thing you can do to keep your man addicted to you is to make sure that you are having incredible sex together. This doesn't mean that you need to spend 15 hours a day having sex! What I mean is that when you do have sex with your man, you need to make sure it's magical.
Now magical does not mean weird, difficult to perform sexual positions or practicing hardcore BDSM (unless you are both into that!). It means that you need to start figuring out what types of things your man likes sexually. Maybe he absolutely adores regular missionary position. Or perhaps he prefers a variation of doggystyle. Maybe it's not the position that's important.
It could be talking dirty that really intensifies sex and makes it addicting for him. Or maybe seeing you in some sexy lingerie puts him over the edge. Or even a particular obscure fetish. Even getting oral sex could be your man's biggest wish. If it is, then you'll be glad that I've got your covered with this detailed video guide. You'll find pretty much everything that you'll ever need to know on the subject in it.
When you are the one that can give him everything he ever wanted in the bedroom, then you can be pretty much assured that your man will become addicted to you.
2. How does he feel around you? The next time you're hanging out with your man, ask yourself this: "Is he excited to be around me?" Now this isn't something you should be worrying about every five minutes. But it is good to think about it every once in a while. If you can answer "yes" most of the time, then you can be pretty sure that your man is addicted to you.
But if you are answering, "sort of" or "not really", then you need to start thinking of what you can do to spice things up. Problem: Often in this situation, when you start to think that your man is losing attraction for you, you might feel like smothering him. Don't make this mistake.
Instead, try something to spark that attraction back up like teasing and play fighting. Remember when you were young and would make fun of boys and tease them about things that didn't really matter? Well, the crazy thing is that it still works great for having fun and building attraction with your man whether you are nine or 99.
It's also okay to disagree with your man. Ever been so crazy about a guy that you readily agreed with absolutely everything he said or asked? This is unfortunately not a great thing if you want to learn how to make him addicted to you. Don't disagree with him for the sake of disagreeing, but don't be afraid to let him know if you don't agree with something. He will respect and like you for it.
4. Learn How To Give Awesome Oral Sex. Ask any guy on the street and they will tell you that good oral sex feels absolutely incredible and is quite addicting! So you are probably wondering what's the best way to give your man great oral sex. While you will find incredibly detailed advice in this instructional video, I'm going to cover the basics here:
- The basic BJ technique: The basic technique is surprisingly easy to perform. All you need to do is simply slide it in and out of your mouth while making sure to avoid your teeth from accidentally grazing off it. Simple!
- Like a waterfall: Making sure that it's wet is easy but crucial to making it more enjoyable for your man. Try using some (edible) lube if you have trouble producing enough saliva.
4. Advanced Techniques. If you enjoyed these basic techniques on how to make your man addicted to you, but want to learn more powerful techniques to sexually satisfy him, like giving great oral sex or talking dirty, then you may be interested in the Bad Girl's Bible website, including the powerful and detailed video tutorial on how to talk dirty to build sexual tension, turn him on and keep him attracted to you. Click here to watch it now.