How To Have Phone Sex: Complete Instructions

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How To Have Phone Sex: Complete Instructions
Learn how to have phone sex the right way using this step-by-step guide. It's easier than you think!

Talk ABOUT the situation & positions - Describing the situation and surroundings is a hot and sexy way to slowly build up to getting sexual. You can do this for just 1 minute or over 10 minutes. It's up to you. Try saying things like: "I want you to walk over towards the bed and lie down on it." "Ok, now tell me how you're feeling." "Now what would you like me to do?" All these phrases aren't particularly exciting, but they are great for slowly getting things going. You can also tell him/her what position to take (you'll find over 100 different sexual positions with professional photographs here).

Give physical directions - The next thing that you want to do is to start giving your partner physical directions about what to do to their body. Here are a few examples to give you an idea about what I mean: "I want you to start running your hands up and down the inside of your legs." "Slowly start unbuttoning your top and tell me what you're thinking." "Now get under the covers and slowly start teasing your nipples."

What About You - All the time, while you are telling your partner what to do, you need to be telling them what you are doing as well. Let them know exactly what you are doing to arouse yourself, turn yourself on and get yourself off. 

This is the basic strategy to have phone sex with your partner. If you are looking for lots more strategies to have phone sex & Skype sex, then you'll find some really detailed posts in the Bad Girl's Bible.

Don't Forget About Toys!

A great way to make phone sex more fun is to use sex toys during it. There are great sex toys available for both guys and girls to replace the real thing. Now some people may be embarrassed or ashamed to be using sex toys during sex, but the truth is that there is nothing weird at all about it. It's just a great way to replicate the real thing.

Sext Texts & Pics

I always teach people strategies so that they never fall into a routine or allow their sex life to get boring. Just like I advise people to use Skype as well as their regular cell phone to spice things up, you can also try sending each other sex texts and sexy pictures too.

Just remember that once you send someone a sex text or sexy picture, they can potentially keep it forever, so trust is absolutely crucial before you try either. A great app to use for this exact purpose that automatically deletes pictures after a set amount of time is SnapChat.

One final word of advice about phone sex. The first few times you have it, it's inevitably going to be a bit awkward and even a little weird. You'll find that the more you have it with your partner, the better it will get and the more relaxed both of you will be during it. So do your best to keep going even if you find it a bit awkward or weird.

You can find more detailed advice on how to build sexual tension, keep him attracted and turn him in this detalied dirty talking video.

 

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