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How To Have Phone Sex: Complete Instructions

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How To Have Phone Sex: Complete Instructions
Who knew phone sex could be so easy?!
Learn how to have phone sex the right way using this step-by-step guide. It's easier than you think!

Trying to keep it hot during long distance can be be tough.  One particular problem is the lack of physical intimacy. A great work around to compensate for this is by trying phone sex. While I usually teach people how to talk dirty (click here for the dirty talking video) and have great sex, today I want to concentrate solely on phone sex.

It's usually not as good as the real thing, but it is particularly good at bridging the gap until you do see each other again. Now lets learn the best way to have phone sex...

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Skype And By Phone

You might think that always using Skype for phone sex is best. The funny thing is that I always advise people to alternate between the using Skype and a cell phone for phone sex.

Why?

The reason is to change things up. If you are having phone sex two or three times a week, you are eventually going to fall into a routine, which is a real killer for your relationship. On Skype, when using a webcam, you are going to be able to see each other completely. This is certainly hot and lets you know exactly what they are doing. But your cell phone has it's benefits too.

When talking on your cell phone, you won't be able to see your partner, you will only be able to hear them. This allows your imagination run wild, perfect for keeping it interesting. For more details on having Skype sex, you may be interested in this video tutorial.

Build Up Slow - Phone Sex Foreplay To Sex

If it's your first time having phone sex with someone, then you may be both nervous and excited about it at the same time. You may be eager to immediately dive in to being explicit and telling your partner exactly what you want to do to them.

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A much better way to make the overall phone sex experience better is to slowly build up to actually getting sexual. This will help to build sexual tension and anticipation. So how do you build up to sex over the phone? Here are a few ways to do it from the foreplay section.

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