3. Use Those Fingers! When you are trying to figure out how to give head to a man, you may be wondering what techniques you should use with your mouth or tongue. Many people get so caught up with the blow job part of giving head that they sometimes forget about using their hands. Don't worry! Using your hands while giving head to your guy is something that he'll adore!
If you use the first blow job technique that I described 'Think About The Tip', then you will have your hands free. While they are free, there's no need to leave them idle. Use...
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Use one hand to grab your man's shaft and slowly jerk it up and down, while keeping the head of his penis in your mouth. Now with your other hand, gently cup his balls and lightly squeeze them and run your fingers around them. Doing all three things at once is not the easiest thing to do, but once you get the hang of it, you will be an oral sex goddess!
4. Use A Little Suction. Using the first 3 techniques I described will make you better at giving head than most of the population. But there is no need to rest on your laurels just yet. Another really nice technique to use while giving head to your man is to use a little suction.
Contrary to popular belief, this is not to suck anything out of him. Instead the purpose of sucking his penis is to apply more skin-on-skin contact to his head and shaft which will give it more stimulation which means more pleasure for him.
All you need to do is to take his penis a little further into your mouth (2-5+ inches deep), then wrap your lips around it so no air can get in or out. Next, just start gently sucking so that your lips and cheeks close in around his shaft and head. Now slowly move his penis into and out of your mouth while trying to maintain this gentle suction.
BJ Tip: Don't forget to breath while giving your man a blowjob! When you are learning how to give head to a guy, you may feel like you have to maintain the same level of suction on your man's penis for 10 or 20 minutes. You don't! Just do it for 10 to 20 seconds at a time and then afterwards take a rest or use a different technique.
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5. More Powerful Tips. The blow job tips that I just gave you should serve as a great foundation to learning how to give good head. But if you are serious about learning how to blow your man's mind with great oral sex, then you may be interested in watching this incredibly powerful blowjob tutorial video.