How To Get Your Man Ready For Sex: 3 Easy Tips & Tricks

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How To Get Your Man Ready For Sex: 3 Easy Tips & Tricks
Want to get your man hot and bothered? Read on to learn the very easy way to get his libido going.

Learning how to physically excite a man is surprisingly easy. There are just a few things you need to do. Read on to learn the three ways you can get and keep his attention in the bedroom. Trust me when I say he won't stop thinking about you! 

P.S. If you want to learn my best dirty talking tips & techniques to turn your man on, you’ll find them in this powerful video.

1. Learn How You Touch Him
The first and most important thing to master if you want to give your man a hard-on is learning how to touch him in a sexy, sensual and suggestive way. Now I'm not saying that you should go straight for his crotch. I'm talking about how you touch his arms, back and chest.

Fast, awkward touching is not going to turn him on. Instead, you want to touch him very slowly and gracefully. You also want to make sure to let your hand linger for just a little longer that you would do to a friend, but not so long that it starts to feel creepy for him. Gauging exactly how long you should touch him for each time comes down to practice and experience, so don't expect to get it right every time.

2. Talk Dirty
Talking dirty to a guy is another awesome way to get him excited. Before you go and start talking dirty to your guy, there are a few things to master first.

  • Not So Explicit: Being explicit is great when you are both in the bedroom. However, in public it can be a real landmine and make things get awkward with your man, very fast. A much better way to approach talking dirty to a guy when you are in public, at a party together or just hanging out is to be much more subtle. Here is what NOT to say, "I really want to feel you in my hands". However, saying something like, "Wow, I wish we were both alone right now" will work a lot better. This is because your man's brain will start whirring into gear, trying to figure out exactly what you meant and you can also play it off as something non-sexual if he happens to get a bit weirded out by it.
  • Learning How To Talk Dirty: While you may be eager to memorize 50 dirty lines to use on a guy to arouse him, it's a much better strategy to start slower, with just 2-3 lines. This makes the lines both easier to memorize and actually say them. If you are looking for detailed advice on exactly what to say, watch this tutorial video. I provide you with all of the tips you need to know to say the right thing and to feel comfortable doing so. 

3. Don't Be Goofy
The last thing I have to say is that you must avoid being goofy as much as possible. I'm not saying that you should act like some Japanese geisha. But if you are usually one to joke around, try toning it back a bit and amping up your sexiness. Use the tips above to get you started! 

If you are looking to learn some powerful oral sex techniques to use on your man, then you will learn a lot from the techniques I teach in this instructional video. It will teach you everything you need to know. Click here to watch it now.

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