5 Kinky Tips For BJ Bliss (From A Sex Pro)

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Discover how to give a good blow job to your man using these orgasmic oral sex tips!

Giving your man good oral sex is not the most difficult thing in the world. However, many women often think it is. This is very unfortunate as there are only a small number of things that make for a great bj. If you follow the advice below, you will have the power to give your man incredible oral sex every time!

1. Enthusiasm - By far the biggest turn on for your man when learning how to give good oral sex is enthusiasm. Enthusiasm is not really a technique though; it's an attitude. It's incredibly ego-boosting for him. This works as a very powerful aphrodisiac and will ultimately make him have a much stronger orgasm.

2. Confidence - Confidence is a tricky topic when it comes to getting sexual with a guy. Again, it's an attitude as opposed to a technique. When you are confident, you'll be able to smoothly grab it, stroke it, lick it and take it into your mouth. But when you lack confidence, you might hesitate when touching or holding his penis. You might be afraid to try something new, or you might be constantly asking him if he's enjoying himself. There is no magic pill when it comes to sexual confidence. It comes with practice and positive experiences that your man gets. The great thing is that you don't necessarily need a guy to practice on. You can use something like a banana or a dildo to practice on instead of your man to gain confidence before actually giving him oral sex.

3. Learn Some Hot Oral Sex Positions - If you're on your knees every time you go down on your man, then he's going to get bored pretty quickly. It's much more powerful to learn some fun and kinky positions to use on him. You'll find 10 of the best oral sex positions on the Bad Girl's Bible site along with over 100 different sexual positions (all with professional photographs!). 

4. More Than One Technique - So many girls that I've taught only had one or two techniques in their oral sex arsenal. The most common is what I like to call the "In & Out" where you simply take him into your mouth and out again while wrapping your lips around his shaft.

Now, the "In & Out" is great, but don't rely on it as your only technique. Instead, you should be learning a range of different bj tips and techniques to use on him if you really want to give him a good time that I will cover now.

5. Don't Forget About His Crown Jewels - When you start thinking about how to give good oral sex to your man, you may become preoccupied with his penis. This is fine, but don't forget about his testicles, too.

Have you ever seen a guy get a blow 'south of the border'? Notice how he will usually fall onto the ground while wincing and screaming out in pain. Why? Because he is super sensitive down there.

Thankfully, you can use this knowledge to your benefit when discovering how to give a good blowjob and make it way more intense by paying them some attention. Using your mouth, you can gently lick and kiss them. You can also take it a step further by taking them into your mouth and very gently massaging them with your tongue.

Now, if you are not keen to have his testicles in or near your mouth, try using your hands and fingers instead to gently touch, stroke, caress and massage them. Working his testicles with your hands while simultaneously giving him a bj can lead to some incredibly powerful orgasms for your man.

If you enjoyed learning these hot oral sex tips & techniques, but want a true sex master class, then you may be interested in the Bad Girl's Bible site. Inside you will learn everything you need to know to please your man from head to toe, including a powerful oral sex tutorial video. 

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