How To Create & Build Sexual Tension: 4 Powerful Tactics


How To Create & Build Sexual Tension: 4 Powerful Tactics
Use These 4 Powerful Tactics To Create & Build Sexual Tension With Your Partner And Turn Them On!

2. Eye Contact

One of the most subtle ways to build sexual tension with a partner is through the deft use of eye contact. Being able to make strong, unflinching eye contact with your partner from time to time is great for creating sexual tension.

It's especially powerful when you can do it while you are saying something naughty or dirty to them. Now there is no need to constantly maintain eye contact with your partner. To be honest, if you are just constantly staring at him, then it will probably start to feel weird, so try to use 'strong, unflinching eye contact' sparingly.

3. It Takes Time To Build Up

While learning how to create sexual tension with your man, you may be keen to do it as fast as possible and make it happen right now. This isn't a great strategy to have. You will get a much more powerful reaction from your man if you can do it slowly and steadily.

You'll even find that sometimes when you drag it out over a number of days or even weeks before acting on how you feel, when you eventually do break the sexual tension, it will feel incredible

4. Don't Forget To Release It!

The very last thing that I have to say on building sexual tension is that you need to release it from time to time. If all you ever do is build sexual tension between yourself and your man and never release it, then your man is going to get incredibly frustrated and even annoyed with you.

Nobody likes someone who is a tease all the time. 

These basic tips on how to build sexual tension should get you started on the right foot, but if you want more tips and techniques on how to tease your man and build incredible sexual tension, then you may be interested in watching this detailed video on how to talk dirty to your man to build sexual tension and turn him on.

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