How To Be Good In Bed: 4 Things You Must Do!


How To Be Good In Bed: 4 Things You Must Do!
These orgasmic sex tips will help you to be better in bed and please your man.

In the meantime, here are some quick tips to get you up to speed:

  • Don't worry about taking his penis really deep. Deeper does not mean better for your man. Remember what I just said about the top of his penis? It's the most sensitive part, so you really only need to take the first two inches into your mouth.
  • Use your tongue. Don't just take his penis in and out of your mouth. Make sure to use your tongue to massage it, lick it, caress it and play with it. This will make your blowjob way more fun for your man

Start With Your Hands - Okay, so that first tip was quite general and you may be eager to just learn some specific tips. What I want to do now is show you how to use your hands on your man when in bed. Here are 3 awesome things that your man will greatly appreciate that you can do with your hands.

  • Try massaging him before sex. Most foreplay usually consists of of kissing and heavy petting before getting down to the act itself. A really nice change, that your man will love, is giving him a massage first before you do anything else. Pro Tip: Doing it with coconut oil will make it way more enjoyable for him!
  • Don't forget about handjobs. Giving your man a good handjob is simple to do, yet he will greatly appreciate and enjoy it. But rather than just grabbing his shaft and paying most of your attention to it (as it's easy to hold), you should focus most of your attention on the head of his penis as it's by far the most sensitive part and the area that he will get most pleasure from.  
  • Don't be afraid to play with his balls during sex. If you are in a position like cowgirl, then reach behind yourself while he's thrusting in and out and gently massage his balls.

Sexually Positioned - The easiest way to learn how to be good in bed is to just add a few new positions to your repertoire. There are an almost endless amount of different positions that you can try out with your man. Here are few to get you started...

  • The Rodeo. Performing the rodeo is very similar to performing the cowgirl position on your man. To do it, your man needs to lie down on his back and you need to straddle him on your knees, facing away from him.
  • The Piledriver. To perform the piledriver, you need to lie on your back and pull your legs back towards you so that your ankles are pretty much on either side of your head. Your man will then penetrate you from above.

If you enjoyed learning these hot sex tips, but want a true sex masterclass, then you may be interested in the Bad Girl's Bible site. I actually created this tutorial video that will teach you how to build sexual tension, turn him on and keep him attracted to you.

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