Kinky: How To Be Dominant In The Bedroom


Kinky: How To Be Dominant In The Bedroom
Use These Naughty, Hot & Steamy Tips To Learn How To Be More Dominant In The Bedroom!

So start with giving him small verbal commands and asking him to do favors for you, "Would you mind taking out the trash?", "Can you go and warm up the bed for me?", "I want you to make me come first, before you do, ok?"

All of these commands are things that are very hard for your man to object to, but they are perfect for laying the groundwork of being more dominant over him.

Once you have mastered using these subtle dominant commands over him, then it's time to start slowly taking it up a gear and being more demanding of him, "I want to spend the weekend with you, don't make any plans, ok?", "I don't want you wearing that football shirt anymore" or "From now on, you need to ask me for permission to come when we're having sex."

If you find that it's hard to get your man to comply with these more intense commands, then it's best to reel them back a bit, before trying again.

Domination Games

Some of the example commands that I just gave you are quite intense and can be further than you may want to take it with your man. If you are someone who really only wants to dominate your man in the bedroom, then these domination games may very well be up your alley.

Not A Sound - The next time you are having sex with your man, tell him that you want to play a game. Tell him that you want to try to make him groan with pleasure, but that he isn't allowed to make a sound. It's an incredibly simple game to play, but a perfect way to start introducing the idea to him that you are the one in control.

Pin Him Down - Physically restraining your man can be very hot. Now, I'm not actually talking about pinning his arms over his head with your arms, I'm talking about taking it a little further than that, tying his arms above his head. The best way to introduce this is to simply ask him if he would be interested in trying it out and then getting whatever restraints you need.

Surprising him with some rope and restraints is not such a good idea and can unnerve him, so remember that it's always better to talk to him about it first.

If you liked these tips on how to dominate your man and be more dominant in general and would like to learn more sex tips, then you will find a wealth of information on the Bad Girl's Bible to spice things up, keep your relationship fun and have some very hot sex, including a detailed & powerful video tutorial on how to give your man a perfect blowjob! Click here to watch it now.

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